Let me ask you a question: Do you believe that the elderly still have love? Or is love just the right of young people? In fact, people are emotional animals. The love of young people is passionate and unrestrained, while the love of elderly people is calm, warm and long-lasting.

Ask everyone a question: Do you believe that the elderly still have love? Or is love just the right of young people?

In fact, people are emotional animals. The love of young people is passionate and unrestrained, and the love of the elderly is calm, warm and long-lasting.

After all, it is not that the elderly have no love, but because the love of the elderly is affected and interfered by the children of both parties.

After retirement, I want to find my own love and find my other half to spend my whole life with

My name is Hongjie. I am 53 years old this year. Two years ago, I officially retired from my unit. The pension is about 5,000 yuan per month. I have a daughter who has her own job and boyfriend. I can’t see anyone day and night.

I guarded my huge home and didn’t go to work anymore. I felt very empty. I wanted to go out and find something to do, but when I applied for the job, I realized that women are not allowed in many places when they are fifty years old. Their requirements are under fifty years old, or even under forty-five years old.

Only washing dishes and cleaning can still be acceptable to women in their fifties. I went to wash dishes for a day, and my waist was sore and my arms hurt. I went home for three days before I recovered. Later, I calmed down and didn’t expect to go out to work.

Our community has many elderly people. In order to enrich the lives of the elderly, the community has carried out many free study classes, including vocal music classes, Chinese painting classes, tea art classes, and photography classes. The teachers in it are also used to make use of their remaining energy and do not have to pay their wages.

I think I usually like to post on Moments, and I don’t have beautiful pictures, so I signed up for a photography class.

Actually, I have a little thought. I have divorced my ex-husband for many years. I have been busy with work and pulling my daughter up. I don’t have the time and energy to find my partner. Now that I am retired, my daughter is old and I don’t have to worry about it. I want to find my own love and find my partner to spend the rest of my life together.

My daughter heard my thoughts and smiled so hard that she leaned back and said: Wake up, it is said that talking about love is the right of young people, what love does the elderly have?

I told my daughter about my little thoughts. I thought she would raise her hands and feet to agree with me to find my own happiness, but I was disappointed.

She first looked at me with a look of surprise, then she laughed and said that I was stupid and naive, and daydreaming. Only young people have the right to pursue love. It is impossible for the elderly to have love at all, and they are not worthy of talking about love.

I don’t agree with her point of view. Young people can love them. Why can’t we single middle-aged and elderly people love them?

I said to my daughter, what should middle-aged and elderly people do after retirement do to do it normally?

She said: "When you are old, you just buy vegetables and cook for your children, take care of your children, and go to dance square dance at night. Isn't this how the elderly next to us come here?"

I felt a little sad after hearing my daughter's words. Even if parents give their children all their lives, they think it's right, and they have become accustomed to them. They never think about what their mother needs? How can we live a happy life?

I was in the photography class and met Lao Zhou, who is 8 years older than me,

I don’t want to listen to my daughter’s words. I am also alone, with my own , seven emotions, six desires, , I can’t tie it to my child’s belt for the rest of my life and be her nanny with her salary.

I have worked hard to raise her. I am only 53 years old, why can’t I live for myself?

photography class almost every day goes to nearby parks to teach on-site. We have more than 20 students, and the ratio of men and women is not much different.

When I went to the park to take a photo that day, I was too focused on photographing the bird on the tree, and stepped into a small hole and twisted my foot. No one noticed me and continued to walk forward and take pictures.

I was sitting alone on the ground rubbing my ankles, and it became swollen as I looked at it. I wanted to call and call my brother nearby to help me back.

At this time, Lao Zhou from the photography class came over and said, "Cheng Hong, how are you doing with your feet? It's not a problem, right?"

I said nothing big, so Lao Zhou helped me stand up. That stop hurt so much that my tears came out.

Seeing me like this, Lao Zhou hesitated for a moment and said, "Cheng Hong, it's not easy to leave now. If you don't dislike me, I will carry you to the road outside to take a taxi and take you to the hospital for a look?"

I said I don't want to go to the hospital, I want to go home. I have Yunnan Baiyao spray and plaster at home, just use it.

But I dare not ask Lao Zhou to carry it. After all, I am not careful, and if my wife sees it, it will be too difficult to explain.

Lao Zhou saw my embarrassment and smiled heartily, saying, "Cheng Hong, I am the same person as you. My wife left three years ago and has a son in Beijing. In the past few years, I have retired to practice fitness at home, because I am afraid that my health will not be able to drag my child down."

At Lao Zhou's request, I carried me to the park outside the park for a fight. In this life, two men have carried me, one was my father, who carried me when I was a child, and the other was Lao Zhou, carrying me when I twisted my feet.

I found my love, and my daughter sent her blessings

It is said that women are emotional animals. It turns out that when I saw Lao Zhou in the photography class, I didn’t feel anything. He was just a tall and ordinary-looking old man. But since he cared about me after twisting his feet, I have inexplicably developed a good impression of him.

When I was recuperating at home, Lao Zhou was always with me, spraying medicine and applying plasters, and making food for me to eat, which made my heart warm.

A few times my brother came and saw Lao Zhou busy in the kitchen. He quietly said to me: "This Lao Zhou, I asked you about it. It's a very reliable person. I'm good to find a companion."

After my feet were ready, Lao Zhou said to me: "Cheng Hong, we are all old, and I won't go around in circles. The rest of my life is not long. I want to find someone to spend with me. I hope this person is you. Do you agree?"

I said I agree. For unnecessary trouble, I asked him to ask my son for his opinion and I asked my daughter what she thought. He nodded.

Early the next morning, he brought me breakfast and told me happily that his son not only agreed but also blessed him. Did he ask me if he had any advice from his daughter? I said she was back late and I hadn't had time to ask.

Lao Zhou said, then you have breakfast first, I will go buy vegetables first, and ask after the child gets up.

After my daughter got up and washed up, she had breakfast with me. She asked me: "Mom, did Uncle Zhou come just now? I seemed to hear his voice."

I said yes, Uncle Zhou and I are going to spend the rest of my life together. Do you have any objections? My daughter ran over and hugged me and kissed me and said, "Mom, my uncle told me that Uncle Zhou, saying that he is a reliable person and treats you well. I used to think that love only belongs to us young people. Now it seems that my original view is wrong. My mother's love at dusk is much warmer than my love. I wish you and Uncle Zhou happiness."

is old and living together. Men basically want to find someone to serve themselves; women can't serve them for nothing, so they try their best to pay some money from the other party's pocket, and finally they parted in a bad mood.

Lao Zhou and I don’t want to follow their footsteps. We do food, I wash dishes, and he mop the floor, and I wash clothes. Financially, each person spends 2,000 yuan a month together as living expenses. Lao Zhou and I sincerely want to support each other and spend the rest of our lives. I hope we can get what we want and be happy!