text丨Love words: 30:30
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
It is said that love begins with confession. A man who knows romance will prepare a bouquet of flowers and a dinner to confess to the woman he likes and express his admiration to her.
However, the love that women expect is not just a sense of ritual and romance, they also look forward to a love that can bear fruit.
Such love is like a sapling. It needs sunshine, rain, and air, and the only thing that can bring these nutrients to the sapling is the most sincere love.
For thousands of years, no matter how the world changes, generations change, people have never stopped praising love, no matter in any way.
So, why do people always like to praise love?
Because love is rare and precious, not everyone can meet their own Liang Shanbo and Romeo. It is no exaggeration to say that the more expectations, the more disappointments it is.
Of course, this does not mean that all men say they like you are false.
You should know that true love and false love are completely different in love.
Men say they like you, don’t be happy too early. There are these 3 manifestations of real liking:
After conflicts occur, it is inevitable in life. Sometimes, because of a very small thing, we may not give in and argue endlessly.
In this case, a man who really likes you will take the initiative to apologize to you and make concessions, for fear that your relationship will be hurt because of this small conflict.
A false man will not give in at all when encountering this problem. For him, it is embarrassing to bow his head and admit his mistake to a woman.
or even, he will think that once he bows his head and admits his mistake to you, it means he will give in to you and will never have a chance to turn over again.
So, don’t be happy too early when a man says he likes you. When you have a conflict, you can see his attitude towards you and you will be clear about his feelings towards you.
Those men who really like you love you all love you, for fear that you will be hurt in your relationship, through surrender and giving in, you can feel that in addition to your father, there is another opposite sex who truly loves you.
Actively report itinerary
The love between men and women is actually very different in love, and even the way of loving others is different.
To give a simple example, at the beginning of a relationship, a man may be attentive and may love the woman in front of him well.
But as time goes by, men's love for women will gradually fade, and this kind of love will be transformed into family affection.
On the other hand, women may not be so attentive to treat a man at the beginning of love, but as time goes by, she will love the man in front of her more and more, and even unable to extricate herself.
Let’s take a look. It’s such a form of love that you can see the transition between men and women in their active and passive relationships.
The problem is coming. The transition between passive and active causes different crises in relationships between men and women.
When two people get along for a while, a woman will feel insecure and want to know what a man is doing.
A man who really likes you knows that you are insecure. Whenever he needs to separate from you, he will take the initiative to report his itinerary to let you find him anytime and anywhere. This attitude towards love fully shows that his love for you is real.
proactively disclose your relationship
When we establish a normal sweet relationship with the person we like, we will start slowly entering each other's social circle and making friends with each other.
At the same time, we will also introduce each other to each other's friends and relatives and disclose this sweet relationship in our social account.
However, those who just say they like you may not be willing to disclose your relationship, because besides you, he is also telling others that he likes you, and he raises a pond of "fish". Doesn't public relations with you mean burying the fish pond?
or his likeness for you is not enough to give him the courage to face it and be more embarrassing if it is not easy to break up.
is not public, but he doesn't like it. Maybe he has a little bit of affection for you, or maybe he wants to maintain a single character.
But no matter which one it is, as long as it does not have enough sincere love, it is not worth our own value and squandering our own love.
Sincerity and action should be the stepping stone to the love fortress in a woman's heart. It is not possible to have false feelings or sweet words. Remember, if you don’t publicly, you don’t like it!
Love words:
Men who do not apologize actively do not care about your feelings and do not like you enough; men who are unwilling to actively report their itinerary to provide you with a sense of security do not like you enough; men who do not want to disclose your relationship and do not want to bring you into their social circle do not like you enough.
Maybe from the beginning he didn’t like you. He was with you, but he just had someone to accompany him when he was lonely.
In love, women are not someone's accessory. They should work hard to improve themselves and distinguish a person's sincerity towards you.
You should know that if a false man is with you, there are only sweet words. Sometimes, just use snacks to easily tell whether his love for you is sincere.