Preface:
After the husband forced the AA system for 3 years, he brought his parents to support him. Later, his wife said that you would give me 6,000 nanny fee every month. What's going on? Let’s take a look at the incident!
Ms. Huang said:
My family has four children, I have two sisters and a younger brother, my parents are very good at favoring boys over girls, my parents want a son, but the first three children are all daughters, and they have a fourth child later, and then they finally have a son. My parents were very happy at that time, and they felt that the hardships were over, and finally waited for their son, so they loved my younger brother very much, what my younger brother wanted. Xi, my parents will basically be satisfied. At that time, I was the eldest sister of the family, so I basically did the housework at home, and I also had to take care of my younger brother and sister. Originally, my academic performance was very good, and I also wanted to go to college, but my parents wanted to leave money for my younger brother to go to college. Later, my parents did my ideological work and asked me to drop out of school and go out to work. At that time, I was very sad, but there was no way, so I had to drop out of school later. After dropping out, I went out to work with the villagers.
In those years, my salary was basically sent back to my younger brother and sister as living expenses. At that time, I had a boyfriend. I really loved my boyfriend. I really wanted to marry him, but he couldn't stand it. I sent money to my home all day. He also asked me if I would continue to send money to my home if we got married. I told him that I would raise my younger brother and sister. Even if we got married, I still had to send money to my younger brother and sister. He couldn't stand it. Then he broke up with me. He said that the burden would be heavy when he was with me. He didn't want to live that kind of life. I was really sad at the time, but I had no choice. My younger brothers and sisters behind
finally grew up. After they grew up, I was older. At that time, I was 32 years old. My friends around me were basically married. Then I began to worry about my marriage, so I often went on blind dates. Most of the people who went on blind dates with me were divorced men. I had not been married yet, and I couldn't accept divorced men. I felt very confused at the time. After
, I finally met my original husband. My original husband was three years older than me. He was 35 years old at that time. He had never been married, but he was not good-looking. However, he had a good job, and his parents also had pensions. Considering that I was old and I thought his conditions were pretty good, I was with him later. Not long after we were together, we still lived together. After we lived together for a few months, I became pregnant, and then we started to arrange marriage. I was really happy at that time. I felt that I had been going around for so many years and finally settled down.
After my husband and I got married, my husband actually forced the AA system. At that time, I was pregnant. Moreover, because the pregnancy reaction was very serious, I couldn't go out to work and had no income at all. Unexpectedly, under such circumstances, he forced me to implement the AA system with him, and did not consider me at all. I was in a very painful period. I also asked my friend how many times he had borrowed money, but fortunately I finally got through it later.
Three years later, my husband told me that his parents were coming to take care of his parents, and then asked me to help him take care of his parents. He said I was their daughter-in-law and it was appropriate to take care of his parents. When my husband said this, I sneered, and then I said to my husband, "It's not impossible to help you take care of your parents. Just give me 6,000 yuan a month for nanny fees, and the current market is basically like this." My husband got angry when he heard me say this, and then scolded me for being jealous of money, saying that I can do anything for money, and I was also angry. Then I told my husband that he would divorce at a big age. Anyway, I had enough of this kind of life.
Because my attitude is very tough, my husband was afraid later, and then he didn't dare to make trouble with me. I don't know if this marriage is still necessary. To be honest, I have no feelings for my husband, but I am also afraid that divorce will affect the children.
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