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The ultimate cultivation of a person: 3 "no"!
The "Tao Te Ching" says: leads to extreme emptiness and keeps quiet and firm. All things are made together, and I will observe them again.
It can be said that although a person lives for a lifetime, there is no cycle of life, but there is a cycle of cause and effect.
As a person, you must make your mind reach the ultimate of emptiness and at the same time stick to the wonderful state of tranquility. Then people can see the existence of the great way from the changes of all things.
This is an extremely realistic present. The relationship between people exists in the form of "true feelings are hard to find" in the form of "value exchange".
There are some interpersonal relationships where you can remember your promises through hearing without saying much.
Some interpersonal relationships are just a fig leaf in front of interests.
Some people, for your own good, have really brought you benefits.
Some people seem to be for your own good, but in fact, they never hope you will be happy.
People who travel through the long river of time often say:
I tell the truth, this is for your own good, I am straightforward...
I once heard a saying that goes like this:
1 People with a knife have a sharper heart than their mouths.
People who really want to be good for you will put themselves in your shoes and consider your goodness for you really want to think about the problem from your perspective. Therefore, for your own good, I have always been praised by others while being accepted and grateful.
On the contrary, some people are for your own comfort. As for whether you want such a good thing, he has never really considered it.
So, for your own good, you have always been tortured by being ungrateful and deserved to be tortured.
We often say that a person’s life is a process of practice.
Practice is to constantly realize oneself and the worldly things in cultivation.
When a person truly reaches a certain level, because of the word "enlightenment", the door to extreme practice is opened.
The "Tao Te Ching" says: There is a clan in words, and there is a king in affairs!
says that people must have a purpose in their words and must be loyal in their actions.
When a person understands what he really wants to do, and is united in his heart, and at the same time, he can not judge others by himself and regard favors...
This person must have become a respected and loved by others in the precipitation of time.
Live in the world, and living is a kind of gracefulness full of mystery and the embarrassment of the hole.
Only those with sudden enlightenment understand that in this life, a person’s ultimate cultivation is to manage himself well! In particular, we will do the following three things:
In Chapter 81 of the Tao Te Ching, it is said:
The way of the saint, do not fight! The meaning of this sentence
is: the principle of dealing with people with noble character is to do practical things without competing with others.
In real interpersonal relationships, the more people who are happy to discuss people's strengths and weaknesses are mostly people who are jealous, selfish, and shameful.
The reason why people's weaknesses and strengths are in secret is that they want to let others fall into the abyss of darkness through uneven means.Acts like
are a kind of "secret dispute". Because, if you can't fight, you can only do this.
Those who truly practice to the extreme will just do their best to manage their lives and never achieve themselves by malicious harm.
The best practice for people is to cultivate their minds! A kind-hearted person will be at ease.
How can such a person be more polite to others and empathize with without considering the current status of others?
1 rating, and the true sense of being good for others have always been the two forces of good and evil.
See the simple and simple, and have fewer selfish desires! The sentence
can be regarded as the most profound sentence that the true book of the Tao Te Ching gives people. To put it into perspective, it means:
people should maintain their simple and unpretentious nature and know how to reduce selfish greed.
Most of the unhappiness of people comes from greed and selfish desires that transcend the original heart.
And people who interfere too much in other people's lives generally need to gain personal benefits in other people's lives. Among them, the greatest benefit is the "sense of existence" he truly feels.
Usually, this kind of person is mostly people who lack self-awareness and inferiority complex in their hearts. Therefore, we must gain spiritual self-satisfaction by getting too involved in other people's lives.
In other words, most people like this are too "idle". The path of cultivation for people is a path to gradually return to themselves. In the process of returning, achieve success from the real creation of self-worth. And this process is often busy and has no time to take care of trivial matters other than yourself.
especially, it will not be too idle to do things that make others bored and hate themselves.
consistent denial of others is a direct manifestation of using self-conceit to cover up inferiority.
In real life, we often have some people who are obviously inferior but are unwilling to improve and transform. In the end, in order to gain recognition and approval from the outside world, they use denial of others to demonstrate their "omnipotence".
Marriage and love relationships, friendship relationships, and relative relationships are even more so. The more inferior a person is, he will have many negatives to the people he is close to in various relationships.
Finally, after everyone is alienated, it will be difficult to repair the relationship.
The book "Tao Te Ching" also says that I have three treasures, and I can keep it and protect it: one is kindness, the second is frugality, and the third is not daring to be the first in the world.
says that everyone has three good ways and methods. As long as you master and maintain it, people will continue to gain better cultivation.
Among them, the first type is kindness, the second type is frugality, and the third type is not daring to compete for the first place in the world.
Everyone has the characteristics of inferiority, but not everyone will do helpless ridicule because of such characteristics.
It can be said that self-cognition occupies an indispensable position in the practice of life management. Once you lose your self-awareness and just deny others in order to cover up your inferiority complex, you can only be sloppy in your life.
Life has been in the past few years, and the years of life are like water flowing. If I want to be more comfortable in the rest of my life, it is hard for me to find a mirror in the reverse direction.
There is another sentence in the Tao Te Ching that makes people suddenly enlightened:
is to take the sage behind his body and the body ahead, and the body exists outside his body. Not because of his selflessness? Therefore, it can achieve its own selfishness.
If a person knows how to be humble and unconfrontational when facing the world, he is leaving room and a way out for himself.The more humble and uncontested a person is, the more he can be in the leading position among the people;
At the same time, when he is accustomed to putting himself outside of the dangers of his own affairs, he can protect himself in his rationality and soberness.
In life, people often achieve their own selfishness because of selflessness and fulfillment.
Psychology says that human nature is selfish and greedy. However, the Tao Te Ching tells us that the highest state of selfishness is selflessness.
It can be said that the reason why the Tao Te Ching is still popular at the moment is because its publication has always existed as a mentor of people of all generations. Let people feel the true meaning of living in selflessness, selflessness, and fear of me.
If you are in an interpersonal relationship and encounter an annoying event, or if you want to take your cultivation to a higher level, I really strongly recommend that you read the "Tao Te Ching".
Here, I recommend the book "Tao Te Ching" to everyone. I believe that you who study it carefully will definitely gain something. May we make friends through books and make more like-minded people!
love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, you can only achieve the right result when you meet the right person at the right time!
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