A boy said that he particularly liked a girl, but he had experienced a failed first love. The main reason for failure is to recognize one's own shortcomings and thus be in a period of hard work. Because of this, his confidence was reduced, thinking about whether he would become b

A boy said that he especially likes a girl, but he had experienced a failed first love. The main reason for the failure of

is to recognize one's own shortcomings and thus be in a period of hard work.

Because of this, his confidence was discounted, thinking about whether he would become better and more mature before pursuing it.

At the same time, he always feels that there is a lack of an opportunity to confess, for fear that it will appear abrupt when pursuing it suddenly.

In short, this is the reason and that reason delays the pursuit.

In the end, I became better, but that girl was already with others.

He felt confused because of this, not sure whether this idea and behavior was right or wrong. I believe many people have such confusion and entanglement as

.

Don’t rush to laugh at others’ cowardice, and don’t rush to question others’ lack of love.

In fact, we may have more or less had this kind of "desergeant" behavior during adolescence.

Not many people fall in love with someone and act immediately, not many people chase after him without hesitation.

This is related to personality and confidence.

But when we were young, we were more or less inferior.

And shyness was also very common at that time, so it was not uncommon to miss the person you like.

As for waiting until the excellence is better before pursuing the right? Or do you want to pursue the right person if you like it?

actually has no correct answer, each has its own correctness.

After all, things like love always have two sides.

So right or wrong only depends on which point you value more.

For example, if a person thinks "love should be love, and the ending is not important", then hesitation is a special regret and wrong thing for him.

But others think that "if you like someone, you should be responsible for her. If you don't have the ability and confidence to give her a good life, you should not start easily." For such people, losing it is just because they have no fate. If that girl lives well, he will bless you with regrets. If she doesn't live well one day, if he is still single, he will pursue her again confidently and firmly.

From my own feelings, I still think that anyone who likes should be brave enough to confess.

This courage is not entanglement or force.

But at least let the other party know what you want.

If you are not confident enough, you can confess your love and run away. It is the kind of "I like you, if you like me, you will be happy. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's just my business."

If the other party likes you too, he will naturally respond immediately and will not miss the person he likes.

If the other party is not so sure, or hasn't thought about whether he likes you or not, it doesn't matter.

As long as you are not in a hurry to ask for the answer or force others, the other party will not be under any pressure. Whether it is being friends or other relationships, you can continue calmly.

can achieve this state, and you need to be confident enough or shameless enough.

After all, confessing is likely to succeed and fail.

Unless the other party also has a crush on you and hides it well, you are not sure and unaware of it, otherwise you may be embarrassed by rejection.

But I think I should be so strong that I don’t fear this embarrassment. After all, “Like someone and confess your love” is not a shameful thing.

If someone laughs at you for being overestimated, that doesn’t matter. Instead, you can laugh at them: you don’t dare to say it if you like someone.

So, if you meet someone you like, don’t think about whether you are worthy of it. Just say it first and don’t just don’t answer it.

Next, you will feel much more at ease.

That person knows that you like him and knows that you are working hard for him. Maybe he will wait for you.

If he has no response at all, then you have no regrets, at least prove that you have not missed the person you like.

Therefore, after all, it is better to be brave enough to confess your love.

Just be careful, don’t rush to ask for a reply, just show your attitude.

For example, the boy mentioned above can express his true thoughts, such as: "I like you, but I feel that I am not outstanding enough now, so I will continue to work hard. If you like me, give me some time to supervise and witness my changes. If you don't like me, it's not your fault. I will still try to become better..."

In fact, as long as you are sincere and have the mentality of considering other people's feelings from the other party's perspective at any time, many issues in love don't need to be so entangled, let alone many skills.

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