Some failed people are guided and dominated by past failures and doubts. Their often have emptiness, obscene, pessimistic, disappointed, negative and decadent mentality ultimately leads them to the path of failure.
So, Victor Frankel, a survivor of a concentration camp in Nazi Germany, said: "No matter what environment, people still have a freedom, that is, to choose their own attitude."
Therefore, we can think that what affects our lives is not just the environment, but the mentality controls personal actions and thoughts. At the same time, mentality also determines one's own vision, career and achievements.
Carefully observe and compare the mentality of successful people and losers, especially at critical moments. We will find that "mindset" will lead to amazing differences in life.
Success Master Carnegie once told a story: Selma accompanied her husband to be stationed in an army base in a desert. Her husband was ordered to go to the desert to act, and she stayed alone in the small iron house of the army.
The weather is too hot to bear - it is also 125 degrees Fahrenheit under the shadow of the cactus. She has no friends to chat with, only mexican people and Indian , and they don't speak English.
She was so sad, so she wrote to her parents, saying that she would throw away everything and go home. Her parents' reply only has two lines, but these two lines remain in her heart forever, completely changing her life:
Two people looked out of the prison: one saw the soil, the other saw the stars. Selma felt very ashamed when she read this letter repeatedly. She decided to find the stars in the desert.
Selma began to make friends with locals and their reaction surprised her. She expressed interest in their textiles and pottery, so they gave her favorite textiles and pottery that they were reluctant to sell to tourists.
Selma studies those fascinating cactus and various desert plants , and learns common sense about groundhog . She watched the sunset in the desert and looked for conch shells . These conch shells were left tens of thousands of years ago, when the desert was still the ocean...
The original unbearable environment has become a wonder that makes her excited and linger. The desert has not changed, nor has the Indians, but the lady's thoughts have changed and her mentality has changed.
A difference in thought made her turn what she originally thought was bad into the most meaningful adventure in her life. She was excited to discover the new world and wrote a book for it, which was published under the title of "Happy Castle". She saw from the cell she built and finally saw the stars.
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