In family life, a daughter-in-law cannot be like a biological daughter, and a mother-in-law cannot be like a biological mother. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be as good as that of the biological child. It is originally a strange relationship, a

In family life, the daughter-in-law cannot be like the biological daughter, and the mother-in-law cannot be like the biological mother. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be as good as that of the biological child. It is originally a strange relationship, and it is because of that man who became a family.

And if the mother-in-law is older, the quality of care for the daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law is not necessarily the same. In our place, we are basically taken care of by our daughters. Some daughters are more filial and will take their parents to take care of for a while. Most of them come back every now and then. The elderly will feel no sense of belonging to their daughters' homes, and are afraid of trouble for their daughters. If their daughters-in-law doesn't take care of their parents-in-law, they will be told that their daughters will not.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law must have a sense of boundary. If you pass the boundary, there will definitely be conflicts. Therefore, you should pay attention to your words and things. In the same sentence, the mother-in-law and mother feel different when they hear it.

In fact, most daughters-in-law just hope that their mother-in-law will respect themselves and don’t need to do too much. Even if they sit there, they can be said. But if they are right, don’t make trouble. People’s hearts are full of flesh and blood and will be tired.

Netizen A: My mother-in-law thinks her daughter will care about her, what's the result? After undergoing surgery for the lumbar spine, the eldest daughter ignored her and came to see her occasionally. The younger daughter just wanted to go to work! My husband is the only one who is afraid that she will be injured and takes care of housework. He is often disliked for helping her do this and that! As for me, I always took care of my child, and I really don’t have time to care about her. Of course, occasionally she wants to take heavier things, so I will help her and let the child learn to give them something to her if she has something to eat. But she doesn’t appreciate it, so I won’t forget it! I'd do it myself, and I don't owe her anything! I gave her living expenses every month, but she never bought anything for my child! Anyway, I feel like I can't get close to you! Her idea is that her children will take care of her, she doesn't need me to take care of her or something! On the contrary, my father-in-law treats me very well and is spoiled to his children because he knows that if he can't move in bed, his wife will take care of him and take care of him! My daughter wants to take care of her mother-in-law's family, and her son wants to work, so he can't control him!

Netizen B: My mother-in-law treats me well. My sister-in-law comes to my house and I buy it. I cook it and cook it together. After the meal, my mother-in-law will take her daughters back to her house to play for a few hours. She won’t call me. My mother and mother whisper and will come back when it’s time to eat. Sometimes I feel depressed, serving your family, and carrying me on my back. After all, it's still mother and daughter.

Actually, if you think about it carefully, no matter your daughter or daughter-in-law, you will play different roles in different families. A woman is a daughter and a daughter-in-law. If you only be a good daughter-in-law, not a good daughter-in-law, or only be a good daughter-in-law, not a good daughter-in-law, it is easy to offend both sides and not a person inside or outside. In short, we understand and help each other, and we cannot compare with each other's better or worse in everything.

Is it better for a daughter or a daughter-in-law, a son or a son-in-law? uncertain. It mainly depends on whether the mutual relationship is harmonious, whether one party gives, and whether the other party also shows the same attitude. Only when both parties can show sincerity, the relationship will naturally be beneficial, and it has nothing to do with the daughter, daughter-in-law, son-in-law, son-in-law. Also, you must master a principle. Don’t say anything that may affect unity. Don’t do things that affect unity. At home, no one is the leader. If you have something to discuss, nothing is necessary. Seek common ground while reserving differences.

You are reliable, and the child is more likely to be reliable, and the daughter-in-law or son-in-law is more likely to be reliable. It is like a fantasy to talk to your children and even your daughter-in-law and son-in-law.

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