likes a sentence very much:
"Born as a human being, you are destined to be lonely. You must get used to the cold and hot of anyone, and you must also be indifferent to the fact that anyone is getting farther and farther away."
Think carefully, it is true.
has so much friendship, and the only way to contact now is to like and how much family affection is. The circle of friends has been blocked, and everyone is busy with their own life and work.
After work, he either went home and lay down or was busy with his children's daily life.
has become more and more lonely now. When I open the address book, I don’t know who to call. I open WeChat Moments, and none of them liked and replied to me. QQ has also become a game account.
fewer and fewer people can contact, and fewer important people are, and the remaining people have better and better relationships. They are not "willing to say anything", but "willing to say anything".
Zhang Jiajia once said:
"The comfortable relationship between people means you can speak at any time."
In this life, people meet many people and can talk a lot, but there are very few people who can chat with you anytime, anywhere.
Tang Dynasty poetry world, there is a kind of friendship called " Yuanbai " combination, that is Yuan Zhen and Bai Juyi .
These two people have the same family background and the same personality. They both failed their first love when they were young, and they were jealous of evil as enemies. They were not good at flattering officials.
This is simply carved from the same mold.
Even if it is separated, you can be in harmony.
It is said that once, Yuan Zhen was sent to Sichuan for a business trip. Bai Juyi was taken to Chang'an by his friend to travel to Chang'an for the outskirts. As he was playing, he became depressed and even picked up his pen to write a poem. When everyone asked, he realized that he was thinking of Yuan Zhen.
Coincidentally, more than ten days later, Bai Juyi also received a letter from Yuan Zhen, saying that after Yuan Zhen arrived at Liangzhou , he had a dream, and also dreamed of Bai Juyi, and he also traveled to Qujiang with Bai Juyi.
When they are together, they work together every day and talk about everything. Even later, due to the suppression of the court, they were forced to separate, and the two often conveyed their feelings through poetry and expressed their longing.
Lu Xun once said this:
"It is enough to have a confidant in life. In this world, we should regard it with the same thoughts."
A true confidant and friend is to talk about everything, to be happy when you are happy, to bear it together when you are sad, and to be all in your words, there is no barrier or distance, and the heart is in harmony, and love is more sincere.
instead of taking advantage of it first, I treat you as a confidant, you treat me as an ant, find me if you have difficulties, and hide from me if you have benefits.
In this fast-paced era, everyone is very busy. Many times, it’s not that we don’t want to talk, but we don’t dare to talk. Others have never been there, so how can we empathize with it?
So, the person who can talk to you at any time must understand you and care about you. They may not be by your side, but in your heart.
There is a saying that goes well: Those who know me say I am worried, and those who don’t know me say I want. A true confidant is a knowledge, a knowing each other, and a faint companionship.
Good relationships are not about being together every day, having everything you say, but about not forgetting anything you say. Yes, understanding others is a kind of joy, and being understood by others is a kind of happiness.
It turns out that in the world, the best encounter is not on the road, but on the heart. The best relationship is not about having fun, but about having nothing to say. The best relationship between people is to speak freely, be scruples, be relatively speechless, have tacit understanding, do not contact each other often, and still miss you. If you don’t please me, I won’t flatter you. Mutual understanding, tolerance, and respect each other. Life is too short, I hope we can all find the person who can chat with you, and I will live together with you.
Flowers do not have to be picked and owned when they are beautiful, but it is good to smell the fragrance of flowers every time they pass by. They are good to enjoy them for a moment. They know each other, care about each other, and do not contact each other often, but they often think about them. So good!
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