Xia Wei never expected that she would have had this affair with her husband and her husband’s family after two years of marriage. After giving birth, she not only did not let the child follow her husband’s surname Tong, but also drove her husband and in-laws out of the house. The reason for all this was that her husband Tong Wei insisted that Xia Wei’s parents share a demolition house for his parents to support her parents, but Xia Wei refused very stubbornly. In order to revenge on Xia Wei, her husband actually made a mandatory AA system when she was pregnant.
Xia Wei and Tong Wei met in college. The two were college classmates. They fell in love quickly because they had similar personalities. Xia Wei's parents were very happy when they learned about their daughter's love, but when they learned about Tong Wei's family situation, they disagreed and told their daughter not to continue dating Tong Wei. Because the financial conditions of Xia Wei's family are much better than that of Tong Wei's family, as a result, his arms were not twisted and his thighs were finally able to compromise and agreed to their marriage.
When Xia Wei got married, her parents married a wedding house and brought her daughter a dowry of 180,000 yuan. After the marriage, the couple lived a sweet and comfortable world. Unexpectedly, they had just gotten married for less than a year, and Tong Wei suggested to Xia Wei that his parents would come to live with them. Xia Wei did not want to agree to her husband's request, but the reason the other party said was that her father was old and had a bad heart, so she needed to go to the large hospital here for examination. She just stayed here for a while and went back to her hometown after seeing her medical treatment.
As a daughter-in-law, Xia Wei has no reason to refuse her parents-in-law coming to see the doctor, not to mention that she has only lived there for a while, so Xia Wei had to agree. But this is tantamount to "inducing a wolf into the house". Since her mother-in-law came to the house, she has become the hostess of this family. She always pointed at Xia Wei's life and even the decorations at home were not satisfied with her and had to redecorate them according to her own preferences. After a long time, Xia Wei and her mother-in-law also became tense.
Later, my mother-in-law even made three rules for Xia Wei, telling her not to sleep in on weekends and to get up early to do housework. Mother-in-law said: The most important thing for a woman is to learn to be thrifty and to work hard for her career is a man’s business. You, try to work as little as possible to recuperate as possible and give birth to a fat and fat boy for our Tong family. Besides, your father-in-law is in poor health and cannot eat too late.
Xia Wei couldn't stand her unreasonable demands on her mother-in-law, but she was not a person who likes to quarrel with others. She could only complain to her husband: Didn't you say that your parents came here to go to the hospital for treatment? Why have I lived here for more than a month and haven't seen them see a doctor? What's going on? Tong Wei couldn't answer for a while, so he changed the topic: Don't worry, I will talk about my mom when I have time, she won't care about you like this anymore!
Xia Wei soon became pregnant. The family was very happy. At this time, her husband took the opportunity to ask Xia Wei’s parents to divide a demolition house for his parents to support his parents. This not only prevents conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also allows his brother’s wedding house to be settled. Xia Wei felt that the request made by her husband was not only unreasonable but also excessive, so Xia Wei naturally would not agree. Unexpectedly, her refusal made Tong Wei even more unreasonable: Xia Wei, I will tell you clearly. If your parents don’t share a demolition house for their elderly care, then your parents will not expect me to support them in the future. The old saying is not that a son-in-law is half a son. I am their son-in-law now. Isn’t it normal for them to share a demolition house for my parents? When they get older, they still have to rely on me to support them.
Xia Wei was furious and shouted: Why should my parents support their parents’ house? It is even more impossible to make a wedding room for your younger brother. In this way, the couple had a big fight with each other.Unexpectedly, because of this quarrel, Tong Wei made a cruel decision. At this time, Xia Wei was pregnant, but he said: Your parents are unwilling to support my parents in the house. From now on, we live in AA. From now on, we will share the expenses at home or the expenses of your prenatal examination. We can calculate it clearly!
What Xia Wei didn't expect was that Tong Wei actually did what he said, and he really did it clearly and did not owe each other. This made Xia Wei feel very hurt, but she had no other way. She was pregnant at that time and couldn't change her husband's idea. She could only live in the way that Tong Wei proposed. Although they lived under the same roof, they looked like two strangers. If it weren't for the fact that they were pregnant, Xia Wei might have chosen to divorce long ago.
Finally the child was born, and Xia Wei's feelings for her husband became more and more cold. After the child was full of month old, Xia Wei discussed with her parents and simply let her child's surname Xia settle down in the Xia family. The in-laws who learned about this incident made people fuss at home. At this time, Xia Wei couldn't bear it: Do you have the nerve to be the grandparents of this child? When did you take care of me when I was pregnant? I have never taken care of my children. I live at my house every day and eat mine. If I hadn't been pregnant at that time, I would have driven you out of the house. After saying that, Xia Wei threw away their luggage without caring about her mother-in-law's tantrum.
In-laws were completely kicked out of the house. After a while, her husband Tong Wei returned home. He was anxious and red, his eyes were red and his whole body was trembling with anger, yelling: Why do you change my son’s surname? Why did you drive my parents out of this home? You and your parents are really bullying others too much! When Xia Wei heard this, she found it extremely funny. She looked at Tong Wei coldly and said: Why? Why do you think? Just because this wedding house was bought by my parents, I have the right to drive your whole family out of this house. Also, when I was pregnant, you insisted on the AA system. Now I have the right to let my child take my surname, and even if I go to court, I will support me. Afterwards, Xia Wei went directly to the bedroom and left the door with her luggage that had already been packed for her husband.
and said to him: From now on, we are no longer husband and wife anymore, just wait at home to sign the divorce agreement ! Tong Wei, who has always been arrogant, knew that the matter was a big deal and was completely confused by Xia Wei's series of operations. At this time, he was completely regretful and kept slapping the door outside and crying, constantly asking his wife for forgiveness. But Xia Wei could not forget any of it. She would never forgive him any more when she was pregnant and confinement.
Finally, I talk about my point of view: Two people become husband and wife, as the saying goes, "One prospers and one loses, and one loses together." If either party does something that destroys the relationship between husband and wife due to gains and losses, it will inevitably lead to the breakdown of the marriage. Just like the husband Tong Wei in the article, he actually made a cruel request for the AA system for couples when his wife was pregnant. The reason why he proposed a mandatory AA system was because his wife was unwilling to give a demolition house to support his parents. In this way, the relationship between husband and wife gradually faded away, and his wife became increasingly disappointed with him until the marriage finally broke down.
. On the other hand, isn’t the whole thing too unreasonable? Why should he ask his parents to take out a demolition house for his parents to support his parents to make a wedding house for his younger brother? If his wife did not agree to him, she would force her wife to AA system. Even when her wife needed him when she was pregnant, it was precisely because of his cold-blooded and cruelty and unreasonable behavior that her wife was completely disappointed. For parents-in-law, they must be on their own side. If their son-in-law does not treat their daughter well, why should they let their son-in-law eat soft food?
Today's topic: Do you support Xia Wei to kick her husband and in-laws out of the house?
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