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Have you ever had such an experience?
The original appointment came as scheduled, but the other party broke the appointment for no reason.
html Old classmate who has not seen for more than 0 years added WeChat and was about to chat lively, but the other party sent a link and said, "Help me cut it."So, you downloaded the software and told the other party after cutting it. After waiting for a long time, I finally got a "thank you" and disappeared without a trace of convenience.
Your enthusiasm is wasted, staying there, feeling lost. The root cause of the result of
is the other party's "not caring".
once saw this sentence: "People who have you in their hearts will always take the initiative to look for you. People who don't have you in their hearts will always automatically ignore you."
Those who really care about you will not ignore your waiting, nor will they waste your feelings in vain.
The person who really cares about you is the person who is worth dating.
People who don’t care about you are not worth waiting for
There was a hot comment on the Internet before: "Go to have friends that make you happy, love people that won’t make you cry, go to the direction you want to go."
Interact with people, be at ease, but it also depends on whether this person is worth your contribution to him.
The heroine Shi Hongxing in the TV series " Breakthrough " is Lin Manjiang's "super hardcore fan".
Her loyalty, admiration, trust and love for Lin Manjiang was almost in a state of obsession.
Shi Hongxing has photos of Lin Manjiang at home and office. She has recorded 178 copies of Lin Manjiang's speeches for many years, and she treasured them like a treasure.
She unconditionally implemented Lin Manjiang's instructions, and even if she was caught in the trap of "buying high and selling state-owned assets at low", she had no doubts.
In order to make Lin Manjiang happy, she used more than 400,000 yuan of "small treasury" to use it for Lin's wife and children as a private service.
However, in Lin Manjiang's eyes, Shi Hongxing was just a chess piece, a "white glove" that "washed" his corruption. The problem of
was exposed, and Shi Hongxing became a "scapegoat", confronting Lin Manjiang was said to be a reversal of right and wrong.
Recognizes the truth behind Lin Manjiang's "righteousness" and "clean breeze" and Shi Hongxing's belief completely collapsed. She couldn't accept the reality and chose to jump into the river to commit suicide.
Perhaps, many people will feel unfair about Shi Hongxing’s experience.
Lin Manjiang never had any sincerity towards Shi Hongxing. Her loyalty and love were also regarded as "pleasing" for her rights in a heartless manner.
The root of Shi Hongxing's tragedy is that she gave her true love to the wrong person. For the sake of the unworthy person, she missed her life, hurt herself and those who truly loved her.
As the saying goes, "Goodness should be given to the right person, give to the worthy person, and feelings should be given to those who know how to cherish."
Those who deserve and know how to cherish will not treat people who give themselves warmth with a utilitarian perspective.
On the contrary, those who don’t care about you never put their true feelings on you.
What they throw out is utilitarianism and calculations, and what they try to recover is the benefits and fruits. When you have value of use, the harmony is full, and if you lose value of use, you will abandon it like a waste. People like
should stay away as soon as possible.
People who disrespect you are not worthy of deep friendship
Learning that Xiao Li is about to go home to visit her relatives, the classmate group immediately exploded.
Students, you say something, I say something, welcome Xiao Li to go home and discuss a small gathering.
The party time is set on the second day after Xiao Li returns home. After obtaining Xiao Li’s consent, the students began to discuss what to eat.
Everyone came up with many ideas, but in the end, Wang suggested that he do the barbecue by himself, which was widely agreed.
Class Zhang said that his grandfather’s home, who lives in the suburbs, has a large yard, which can be used as a barbecue place.
So, Wang took the initiative to assume the responsibility of a statistician: who can come, who drives, and who takes the car.
BBQ ingredients should also be prepared. How many meat skewers should be bought? Whoever brings a charcoal stove and barbecue clips should be prepared for vegetarian food.
The entire process is statistics and sent to the group and a very long table is listed.
This is not the end. Some classmate had a new idea and threw it out in the group. Someone immediately responded. Without looking at his phone for a while, he saved hundreds of chat records.
3 days, the students said more in the group than in a year.
On the morning when everyone was eager to set off, Xiao Li sent 4 words: The event was cancelled!
At first, everyone thought they had posted the wrong ones, so they didn't care much about it. After a while, I received another message: If something happens temporarily, I will meet again another day!
"Is something wrong?" someone asked.
Xiao Li didn't respond at first, and couldn't help but ask questions all the time, and gave a "naughty" expression, saying, "Don't worry, everyone, I'm fine. I'm chatting with my family last night. I slept too late, and I want to make up for my sleep."
finished speaking, and took a selfie of a photo of him lying on his bed in his pajamas.
The group suddenly became silent.
A day later, Xiao Li appeared in the group again, saying that he slept in a dark and dark yesterday, and finally he was full of blood and could get a party!
More than two hours passed, and Wang broke the "embarrassment" and kindly reminded Li to pay attention to his health, and said "find an opportunity" to get together again.
Then the group returned to its former tranquility.
is full of enthusiasm, and is extinguished by the sudden cold water. No one will feel very happy if they are replaced.
once read this sentence: "If you look down on others' efforts, it is equivalent to looking down on yourself. No matter what kind of relationship you have, you need respect."
Everything is self-centered and regards others' contributions invisibly. Others rely on you once, but it does not mean that you will be regarded as the "core" next time or next time.
votes with peaches and plums, and repays them with Qiong Yao. Others give their sincerity for you, but you don’t think about other people’s ideas at all, so why should others continue to think about you?
is a truly “worthy” relationship, which is mutual respect.
People who don’t respect you are really not worthy of close contact.
Your efforts, "worthy people" can be seen
Every day after get off work, colleagues and their elder brother will take turns to their father's house to "work". This habit will last for 5 years.
5 years ago, my colleague's father suffered from leg disease and was unable to walk.
In order to let the father breathe more fresh air and exercise his feet more, the two brothers took turns to support his father for a walk outdoors every day.
On the weekend, whoever is the turn of the shift will take his father back to his home, help him take a bath and cook his favorite meals.
The cold and heat are never interrupted.
The father was lying on the window every day, waiting for his son to return. When he saw his son appearing in sight, he was so happy that he was overjoyed.
Neighbors praised their son for his filial piety and said that this was a blessing that the old man had cultivated in his previous life.
Sure enough, the sky pays off. My father's legs gradually gain strength, and he doesn't need help when walking. I heard that a few days ago, he started practicing table tennis with his son.
Even though it is like a play, the son still appears on time every day and stays with his father, which has long become a habit.
Parents give us life, raise us to grow up, and give us all. When we are old and weak, the company and concern of our relatives become more precious.
Taking advantage of the moment, no matter how busy you are, you have to go home to see it. No matter how tired you are, you have to accompany your parents. Your filial piety will make your parents feel at ease.
A while ago, the unit was busy and always worked overtime until the second half of the night. The husband called me on time every day and asked me what I wanted to eat at night, and he would prepare it in advance.
When you get home, no matter how late the night, the lights in the hall are always on. The gentleman will come over immediately to ask about his well-being and warm up the food.
The most common sentence he said was: "Don't worry, I'll wait for you."
's words, that lamp, and the guardian of the gentleman gave me a sense of security and devoted myself to my work. During that time, the results of the project that worked overtime and studied were awarded the honor of provincial key demonstration projects.
And all this, I have to thank the gentleman for his contribution without regrets.
Writer Wantet once said in "You Are Not Nothing": No one in this world is an isolated island. Those who rub your hands for you in winter, fan you in summer, and leave lights for you in late night are all proving vigorously that you are the one who deserves to be loved. "
The most gratifying thing in the world is the word "worth".
Your efforts, my efforts, and his efforts are cherished, grateful, relieved and happy in the eyes of "worthy people".
Then, everything is worth it.
For those who don't care about you, the more you pay, the deeper you hurt.
" Only when others respect yourself can others respect you. "Truthlessness depends on sincerity.
Those who give for you without regrets and truly love you are the ones worth cherishing.
There is a praise on the Internet: "Leave your energy to those who are worthy of it, and do not treat any enthusiasm unfairly, nor please any indifference. "
More than a lifetime has not lasted. We do not seek survival and can tell the truth at any time. But we always want to keep our eyes open and clear our hearts, and leave time to those who are worth it.
May all you meet in this life beauties, and what you pay is worth it, and your life is better.
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