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Hello, I am Yu Chu, share a chat history:
"Ask a wise man, are you a chu girl?"
"Ah? I'm not, I'm Sagittarius."
Tiantian forwarded the chat with her ambiguous partner above. The record gave me the heavens, and I complained: "Hmph, I originally had a good impression of him now, but after meeting, I asked this on WeChat the first sentence, and my feelings disappeared instantly."
"Fortunately, I'm smart, please praise me, hehe."
"Awesome!" Then I sent another expression of touching my head. Seeing the "little grievance" emoticon sent by Tiantian, my eyes were inexplicably sour.
Tiantian gave him his first love for the first time. Unfortunately, the two finally broke up peacefully due to their disagreement of personality.
The night when they broke up, Tiantian ran to my bed and cried for a long time.
Although I was a little in tears, the sentence "Will no one want me in the future" seemed to shake my eardrums.
In the remarks of friends over and over again, Tiantian slowly walked out of this shadow.
Despite this, Tiantian still couldn't be as calm as she was in the face of such a straightforward question.
Tiantian once told me that she and her ex-boyfriend had actually been unable to live with each other for a long time.
It was just because of that film. Tiantian was afraid that her next boyfriend would care about it, so she kept dragging her hands with her ex-boyfriend and thought that she might be able to get back together.
It was not until there was no way to stop the relationship.
The reason why the breakup is not dominated by love, but because of a layer of film. It is indeed a bit ironic to think about it.
But how can you understand Tiantian’s psychology?
02.
The Qing died, but the conservative thinking is still there.
There are many people in the world who care whether the other person is the first time, regardless of gender.
However, strictly speaking, I think it is not the first time that a partner is worried about him or her, which is not considered a conservative idea.
people will have more or less some emotional cleanliness , which contains mental and physical aspects.
see copywriting on the Internet such as "the current boyfriend kissed his ex-girlfriend's feet, and then kissed your mouth again" and "What you and your current boyfriend are all the rest of his ex-girlfriend's play" and it is fake to say that you don't care.
is just a difference in the degree of concern to individuals.
I am a girl, but this does not prevent me from thinking that it is not the first time for a partner, and even includes the rich history of love in the past.
Just this mind is not enough to make me directly raise the red card and let the opponent out. It can only become a regret point, not a fatal point.
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And I am not " double-standard dog ", so while I mind, I can also accept that boys are not too concerned.
Because of this, in the concept that "the student era without falling in love is incomplete" among everyone, I still refuse early love.
Because in my opinion, most premature love cannot go to the end, even if there are exceptions, it will not be me.
I fantasize that my first love is the right person who will accompany me throughout my life. If possible, I also hope that I am the other person's first love.
But as the saying goes, look at yourself first when criticizing others.
I can't imagine and understand that it's not the first time a boy who has had n ex-girlfriends who have had n relationships with them.
If you don’t care about the number of times you have sex, how can you ask your partner to be clean?
"I am a boy. Of course it doesn't matter whether it's the first time, but girls are not good. If it's not the first time, then she just doesn't love herself." Double standards like
make people feel both ridiculous and ridiculous. Is it not that girls have a chaotic private life for the first time, but boys have rich experience.
04.
Of course, there are many men in the world who don’t mind whether girls are the first time. In other words, they may also mind, but love for you exceeds everything.
They will take girls out of the previous sexual experience that may not be considered beautiful, give more understanding and comfort, and let girls regain confidence.
I just hope that every girl can meet the right person.
What a partner should give himself is love and spiritual comfort, not endless attacks and burdens.
When a man denies all your feelings because it is not the first time you have, then he is not worthy of your entrustment.
is not the first time to pua you, and say over and over again that only you don’t dislike you, and that you should completely stay away from the people who want to compensate me for it.
is not the first time, it is definitely not equivalent to not loving yourself.
No one is qualified to judge you that you should never "give away" your first time at that time.
Whether it is a beautiful first time or a bad one, it is just the most dull and ordinary page of the poems written by your own hands in your life.
That page may have some corners, and even if you try to smooth it out, it will leave a mark. But as soon as the page count turns and the poem is completed, it will dissipate in the wind and be covered by you with a brighter crease.
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