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1. I don’t recognize myself from the bottom of my heart, and I even hate myself a little and look down on myself. Even if I have something good, I will feel that I am not worthy;
2. When I encounter a problem, the first choice is not the one I choose as soon as possible. Face it bravely, but escape. Over time, you will live in the lies you weave, resulting in serious psychological problems. This psychological problem may not be the core of being unconfidence, but unconfidence is likely to be a manifestation of it;
3. Living in a "strike" since childhood "In the original family, which is mainly education, they have been blamed by their parents for a long time. Even if they have achieved good results, they will not be praised. Living under the shadow of "other people's children" and growing up in such an environment will inevitably lead to the heart or More or less, there is a little inferiority complex;
4. If you choose the wrong field, you can't do anything well and everything goes well, and you will fall into deep self-doubt;
5. People who are extremely lacking in love are often not confident enough, even if A beautiful appearance, proud talent, and prominent family background cannot make up for this.
The most important thing to want to become confident is to learn to love yourself, accept yourself, accept your shortcomings, and recognize your imperfections. On the other hand, the above 5 points are also the best cure from "not confident" to "confidence".
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