From then on, my heart is as wide as the sea.
When dealing with people, some rulers should be placed; some rulers should be collected.
Only by having the wisdom to put away the ruler can you not be trapped by it and live a life of ease and relaxation.
Collapse the ruler of experience
Everyone's life path needs to be walked by himself. Only after you experience this kind of thing can you feel personal and understand the taste. Otherwise, no matter how pertinent the other party’s suggestions are, they will only scratch the surface and cannot touch other people’s inner needs.
is not all past experiences, they are suitable for the present.
Many concepts are based on the cognitive conditions and environmental factors at that time. As these factors change, they will become out of place.
As there is a saying: Experience is a good thing, but sometimes it can harm people and make deviant judgments.
A mature life will not use the ruler of the past to measure the current life, nor will it use the ruler of the present to measure the self of the past.
What happens in life has its own meaning, but it can only represent a certain stage and cannot determine a person's life.
Always believe that you are better now than in the past and deserve a more exciting life.
removes the worries of "being bitten by a snake once, fearing the rope for ten years", bid farewell to the unnecessary burden, and joining the battle lightly is the best attitude towards the future.
Close the evaluation ruler
There is a ruler that seems invisible, but is everywhere. Some people use this to guess other people's lives, evaluate their right and wrong, and judge their success or failure. Even if you don’t know the other party at all, you can draw conclusions on your own.
After all, the premise of this evaluation is sometimes not a fact, but a standard set by them themselves.
is easy to evaluate others. Once other people's lives exceed their own cognition or deviate from their own opinions, these people start to point fingers and talk about their shortcomings.
thought that this would demonstrate the correctness of one's own, but he did not know that it just exposed a person's narrow-mindedness and prejudice.
The world is big, and there is no so-called unified standard in life.
Different people live in different growth environments, different positions and perspectives, and their views on how to live are naturally different.
Do not use your own ruler to measure other people's lives, which is not only cultivation but also wisdom.
From now on, let go of the evaluation ruler in your heart, let yourself be yourself, and let others be others. Only by respecting harmony but being different can we achieve each other.
Collapse the ruler of matter
Regarding matter, some people always think about it when they get it, and they still want it when they have it, and they are always in unsatisfied anxiety. I am afraid that once I stop, I will be surpassed by others and become a loser.
So everyone sighed that it is really difficult to get happiness, it is simply a luxury.
But in fact, being happy or not has always been a subjective feeling and a state of mind.
The fundamental problem of some people feeling unhappy is that they chose the wrong yardstick to measure happiness from the beginning.
In the eyes of some people, the amount of material possession is equivalent to the bargaining chips close to happiness. But people's desires are endless. Too much greed will only be misled by greed in the end.
How can one be happy if one lives in the pursuit of hard work and loses one's true nature and fun? Don’t stare at other places, strive for more, and do unnecessary comparisons and conspiracies.
What we need to do is to look inward, adjust our mindset, reduce expectations, and work hard within our means to slowly achieve the goals in our hearts.
I read a sentence: People cannot control their own happiness because they exceed the size of the ground occupied by their feet.
The ruler of matter cannot measure the length of happiness. Instead, it adds burdens, and fullness will lead to losses.
Only when you clearly understand what you want, when you are full and full and no longer driven away by desire, happiness will appear as it is.
’s best life state is not to have everything, but to be right around you.
let us abandon the complicated and complex material desires and let go of our greed and delusions that do not belong to us.
grasps the ruler of life, and from now on, my heart is as broad as the sea, not to measure others, but to correct myself.
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Author: Nian Nian Source: Nian Nian Muxin (ID: nnsg1021)
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