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Many people hope to be happy to the end when they first got married, but unfortunately, love is not something you can last forever.
When the two have to separate, they get married again and become halfway husband and wife.
How would a couple feel when they live a "husband and wife life" halfway through the journey than when they get married for the first time? Listen to the thoughts of the three men who come over.
1.33 years old, the couple regretted it after halfway through
I am 33 years old this year. I divorced when I was 30 and got married again when I was 33 years old.
My ex-wife and I divorced because we were not in line with each other's personalities and often quarreled together. The two of us had a tough personality. In the end, there was no way and we had to separate.
My current wife and I were introduced by others. We were both second marriages. I thought that after the setbacks of our first marriage, we would cherish each other's second marriage.
This marriage has come to this day and I realize that I was wrong.
My ex-wife and I have no children. She married me with the child. I found that everything she does is to think about the child. Even when my child and I need it, she will only consider her own child, not mine. Feel.
We originally agreed to get pregnant at the end of this year, but because her child disagreed, we were not pregnant for a long time.
I definitely want one, with a child I like, she always asks me to do ideological work, hoping I can postpone it, but I am no longer young, I am already 33 years old, I don’t have children yet, are you waiting for it, are you waiting Do I want it again when I was 40?
I feel physically and mentally exhausted in this marriage, because there is one more person in our marriage, so I am very tired and regretful now.
2.35 years old, you must know how to cherish each other's blessings
I got married with my first wife, but I was very unhappy because she always disliked me for not having money.
She always thinks that other people's husbands are very good, she always thinks that other people's houses live in very good, she always thinks that other people's mother-in-law are all very good, anyway, our family is not good.
Because I love her very much, I have been patient in this marriage.
What makes me most unacceptable is that she actually has an intimate relationship with a man outside of marriage. When I questioned her, the reason she gave me was that because the man was willing to make money and spend it for her, I gave her too much money. Less than that.
Once the marriage reaches this point, you have to separate.
When I got married for the second time, I decided to find a good woman who is reliable and down-to-earth and reliable.
I am very lucky to meet her. She won’t dislike me for making less money. She cooks when I come home from work. When I come back to eat, we will clean together after dinner, and then take a walk and watch TV shows to sleep, and go to work the second day.
I felt the warmth and warmth of the family in her and the tenderness of my wife. This is something I have never felt in my first marriage.
The most important thing in marriage is that that person truly understands you and is willing to live a down-to-earth life with you. Only then will she not dislike you and she will not feel that the years are trivial and long.
Some people are obviously unhappy in marriage. The more they look forward to changing their own changes and changing time, the more they will change the other party. In fact, the other party will not change, and they will even become worse.
It is your best blessing to meet someone who is willing to cherish you in marriage.
3.38 years old, I was lucky to meet her
I am 38 years old this year. When I was 25 years old, I had a short marriage, but she was unwilling to have children and insisted on being dink family . Later we separated peacefully.
The expectations and requirements of two people in marriage are different, so it is difficult to persevere. In that marriage, I was wrong at the beginning. I thought my love could move her, I thought my love could move her, I thought my love could move her , but from beginning to end, she only insisted on her own ideas and never considered it for me.
In the second marriage, we all like children very much. We agreed to have three. We have children at home, and it is lively every day. This is the family state I want.
Everyone has different requirements for marriage. I cannot evaluate others' persistence in marriage, but I know what I desire.
Sometimes, follow the wrong person into marriage, please don’t sink in it. As time goes by, the wrong person will not become the right person, and in this marriage, you are the only one who is in pain.
Faced with the unhappiness of marriage, men will not suffer less than women.
I am very lucky. When I want to give up or persevere, I followed my heart and chose to give up.
So I have a new happiness again and a happy family now. Because of my current children, I love my wife more, I am more responsible, and I am more motivated to make money to support my family.
Many people say that couples are guarded against each other halfway through the road. At least for me, I hand over my income to my wife every month, and a woman who is willing to risk her life to have children for me at the risk of her life. , What else do I don’t trust her?
When men want to get happiness in their second marriage, they should let go of their guard against women, because you are not really that rich. Maybe women make more money than you. Don’t think that women marry you, just to think that women are thinking about you. The house is to think about your money, she wants to live with you for the rest of her life.
Some people say that second-married couples are just helpless choices caused by life and forced to do so, because one person cannot bear life and has to find someone to support themselves.
may make some sense, but it may not make sense, but it is really a little difficult for couples to get happiness compared to their first marriage.
Two people should learn to trust each other and be honest with each other. When encountering any problems, they should speak their inner thoughts frankly, instead of having their own little thoughts. They should also remember to learn from the lessons of the failure of their first marriage and adjust them. Only those who enter marriage again will be happy with their own mentality.
So whether the second marriage will be happy has nothing to do with the marriage, but with the person.
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