Unlike Western countries, our country is a human relationship society. Because it is a human relationship society, it is very sensitive to human relationships. Speaking of human relationships, it is not difficult to explain. To put it bluntly, it is resource replacement, but this

is different from Western countries. Our country is a society of human relationships. It is precisely because it is a society of human relationships that we are very sensitive to human relationships. Speaking of human relationships, it is not difficult to explain. To put it bluntly, it is resource replacement, but this kind of resource Replacement is also very picky, and not all resources can be replaced, so this has also formed many taboos for relationships, such as the poor and the rich and the neighbors. What does the sentence

mean? As the literal meaning is that when we are poor, we try not to ask for help from some relatives frequently, and when we are rich, we should not visit our neighbors often. This sentence was left by our ancestors, so there is naturally some truth. Today, the storyteller will explain the reasons for it.

First of all, when we are poor and need help, we will consider which group of people will help us. Among them, relatives are our first choice, and it is also because relatives are the people you care about the most. If relatives help, Fortunately, if you don’t help you, you will pour cold water on you and roll your eyes, besides letting relatives look down on you, you may be worried about this matter and will even never interact with this relative again. Please remember , human nature is the most untestable.

followed by wealth and no neighbors. By the way, due to the rapid development of society, some people have seized the opportunity and accumulated a lot of wealth in their hands, and lived a life that others envied, but this will attract many people's jealousy. Coincidentally, many of these people are people you are familiar with and those who know you. Once this group of people is jealous of you, the dark side in their hearts will surface, and some sarcastic words will inevitably be said behind them, but the wealth here is not The saying of crossing the neighbor comes in handy.

First of all, when you are rich and frequently visit your neighbor's house, this type of person will seize some false handles and say that you must have a purpose, such as if you like someone's neighbor's little wife, Neighbor's girl, wait, it's not some good things. There is a saying that is good, people are afraid of words. Maybe because of these words, you will also cause trouble and cause unnecessary trouble. Of course, these so-called neighbors also include those around you. Perhaps because of this, some well-versed rich people know the truth well and try to avoid unnecessary social interactions. Therefore, they will also attract some rumors, saying that rich people are stingy and rich. I look down on those poor guys, these are all small-scale gazes.

After all, these considerations are all the experiences summarized by our ancestors in daily interpersonal communication over thousands of years, which are very useful in real life.