"I could have endured the darkness if I hadn't seen the sun" poet Dickinson once said this. This situation is reflected in most people in reality. Because they meet beauty, their choices are more firm; because they see the stars in the night sky, they illuminate their peers around them.
"perfect" belongs to them
In the movie "Invisible into the Dust", the two people living in the dust include Tie and Cao Guiying, who illuminated each other's lives with honest and simple love and made the original "a pool of stagnant water". "The life has the vitality of life, and the other party is like a beacon, which allows them to have a direction of life, which is what we ordinary people often say has a "momentum".
Life is afraid of having no direction, and I don’t know why I’m busy. They live a hard and hard life, and it’s really not easy, but they are also favored. A light appears in their lives, making the original ones A desolate life is full of hope. The ending of Ma You Tie became dim due to Cao Guiying's mistakes. This drama does not have the traditional sense of perfection, but how can life be perfect?
Targets in life
In real life, we often hear people say that they are confused and have uncertain future. In fact, this kind of confused life is difficult to define. Is he confused without a goal? Or is it confusion after the goal is lost? The second kind of "confusion" that life is most afraid of is no motivation in life, just like a tire is exhausted.
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Among young people who have just entered society, we can see that many children are full of fighting spirit and have lofty dreams. This kind of confidence seems to save the whole world. In fact, this optimistic idea is a kind of mentality. A positive attitude is still very beneficial at work;
Because of a positive attitude, everything will look forward to better results. Even when facing some challenges, they will persist because of the results they want, and this persistence will Let many people achieve something in their work.
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So because of all the goals that are positive and optimistic, they regard the challenges encountered in the process as a training, so they are driven by this goal. The result will definitely be more complete, and the goal of is like the sun illuminating the person who chooses it.
updated desolate
Speaking of "marriage", in life, we will see many people with unhappy marriages. Talking to them is like walking into a desolate world, which is so desolate and deserted.
- In particular, many women have changed their temperament after marriage or divorce, and some even suffer from high depression, crying all day long, and tend to commit suicide. If they knew that marriage brought them this kind of life, I believe many people would not choose to enter this so-called "palace".
Because the marriage is too beautiful and the love is too sweet, this kind of happiness seems to be irreplaceable to the other party, so I choose to combine it.
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I guess, the woman in the white wedding dress must be the most beautiful and happiest person in the world, because she finally found the man who wanted to spend his whole life together;
I guess, the one who knelt on one knee with the wedding ring with the wedding ring A man must be the happiest and most accomplished man in the world, because he finally married this young, beautiful, gentle, virtuous woman who has been in love for a long time. He can protect her legitimately in the future;
The hands are held together It feels like two hearts colliding, as if marriage is the most perfect way back.
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However, due to the contrast after marriage, the expectation was lost, love lost points little by little, and sharp edges appeared in many frictions. This kind of messy life can no longer be described as beautiful. People can still slowly relax through many communications, while some people cannot tolerate the black ink on the white paper.
At this time, it is like the second half of the poem by the poet Dickinson "But the sun has made me desolate , become the desolation of renewal".
Lived as "that beam of light"
I heard a sentence before, "Don't place hope in people's hearts, because people's hearts are too fickle."
Yes, be an independent person when possible , let yourself live as your own support, because not everyone is so lucky to encounter the light in life.
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