my country's marriage rate has decreased again. With the development of the new era, my country's marriage rate seems to hit a record low every year .
Many people reject marriage
Many people say that one person can live a good life in , why do you need one more person?
Don’t be alone! Even for the elderly, both sex life is very important.
follows instinct
It is undeniable that single does have many benefits. does not have to care about the feelings of his partner in life, and you can play as you like.
All the money you earn is , and all your time belongs to you.
But is everything really as happy as on the surface ? Maybe sometimes, humans can deceive their own thoughts, but they can't deceive their own instincts and ask for requests.
Maybe you are in the association too?
Whenever the night is late, loneliness and anxiety will surge into your heart, which is the distress signal sent by the body.
Because as long as it is a creature, it must follow , an instinct , that is, reproduction, even humans as advanced creatures are no exception.
Animals in nature will do whatever they want to reproduce, such as ferrets . In order to allow the subject to have enough food to reproduce, they will choose to commit suicide after mating is completed.
shows how powerful the instinct of 's reproduction has on species. Although the impact on humans does not mean suicide, the risk of depression is still quite high.
ferret: Don't learn from me
Humans will have midlife crisis , which mainly occurs in middle-aged groups. People who have crisis will begin to think about their status and the meaning of their existence.
, especially middle-aged people who do not have children, , will have more inexplicable anxiety. Maybe I think I am living a good life, but the mental crisis is telling him not to disobey the duties given to mankind by nature.
Maybe someone will take the homeless on the street as an example. . Whether these people get married or have children, aren’t they living well together? ? Why haven’t the homeless people experienced a midlife crisis?
Homeless man lives well alone
In fact, homeless men are also suffering from crises, but for homeless men, life is already so hard, and this kind of mental torment can also face calmly .
In the news reports, there was a doctoral student in . The report was called Xiao Zhang. He had never been in love since he was born until his 30s. When his family urged him to get married, the doctor turned a deaf ear.
While pursuing his own degree, he made money. After a few years, he also bought a single apartment. Many people call Xiao Zhang a role model for singles .
A good life golden bachelor
During a chat with a friend, Xiao Zhang finally couldn't help but tell his inner pain .
Xiao Zhang said that although he looks like a single successful person , it is actually just superficial and may not notice it when he is busy with work.
But when you have free time , you will feel inexplicably empty in your heart, especially after getting off work late at night, your inexplicable anxiety becomes stronger, and you always feel that something is missing when you return home.
A friend suggested that the doctor see a psychiatrist. After examination, it was found that Xiao Zhang had mild depression and anxiety .
loneliness leads to depression
Later, Xiao Zhang sold his single apartment and followed the advice of his family. He started blind dates . It was not until he found his partner that this anxiety gradually weakened.
is not in the same way as the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." Sociologists have found that topic occupies the most important position in human interaction.
When friends around you are talking about marriage, if you are still single, you are likely to become without topics to talk about .
This does not mean that there is a problem with this person's social ability , but the law of human social development. people will talk about different things at different ages.
is out of place
For example, when was young, the children would discuss where they were fun, and what new toys did parents buy for themselves.
When I was in junior high school, I gradually felt academic pressure . Boys and girls would talk about some academic topics and stories about early love for girls who had just started to fall in love.
Just now came out of society, everyone was busy looking for a job in . At this time, the topic was more about work.
After the age of thirty, after work stabilized, everyone's topics naturally turned to Marriage and Family , Some people are showing off their family happiness to their friends, while others are complaining about the discord in marriage.
Happy Married Life
At this time, if single people want to insert other topics , there is nothing to talk about, because in most people's lives, marriage is the main focus.
Gradually, singles' social scope will become narrower and narrower , and then they will begin to doubt their social abilities.
After that, whether in life or work , they like to be alone and start to not know how to communicate with others.
The so-called companionship means the comfort of on the mind of . Just imagine, after a busy day, when you return home and think of someone waiting for you, don’t you feel heartwarming?
Living alone
When you encounter difficulties, some comfort words from the other party can often become the spiritual pillar of . Of course, some quarrels will inevitably occur in life. As long as you communicate sincerely, the problem will definitely be solved.
is content with the status quo
The reason why many people are unwilling to find their partner is that has never been a suitable person .
You should know that people have strong adaptability to . After adapting to a single environment, people don’t want to change their existing living conditions in .
Once you meet the object you really like, you will also be afraid that will show your existing lifestyle, so you will miss such a candidate.
Gradually get used to being single
Benefits of love
First of all, love will make people grow and make people's thinking mature, because when you are in love, what you consider is no longer just one person, but also need to consider the other person.
When people expand their thinking to others, they will find different thinking patterns.
And love is a process in which influences each other . There are not two identical leaves in the world, and people are the same. Everyone has different personalities and thinking.
Both parties can gain advantages from each other, and changes their cognition in a subtle way.
Good love can grow each other
Secondly, Love will make women more "beautiful" . In the process of love, this is reflected psychologically and physiologically.
Physiologically, women during love will secrete a large amount of estrogen in their body, which can help the skin become smoother.
After falling in love, girls will pay more attention to their dressing up and want to show their excellent side in front of their boyfriends.
Psychologically, men and women after falling in love will be more positive and upward , while women in love will be more confident because there is a man's recognizes and gives himself sufficient confidence.
Fall makes two people better
When speaking and doing things, you can always reveal a feeling of confidence, and your mood will also become better. You prefer to hang your smile on your face .
Smile is a natural dose of whitening good medicine . Smile more not only makes people younger, but also relaxes the muscles of the face and makes the face look better.
For men, they become more responsible for and become more patient in everything they do.
At this time, some people may say that Marriage is the grave of love . It is indeed sweet when you fall in love, but it is very scary after marriage.
Is marriage really the grave of love?
The key is still what the two parties think. Marriage is just a continuation of love. Both parties can have a legal and reasonable identity in society.
After getting married, you will catch a lot of happy love life, Everyone’s eyes cannot be limited to failed marriage , but you must look further away.
Communication Studies There is a theory called "Cave Effect" in . When people are in dark caves, they can only see the illuminated areas around them, but cannot observe others, and the human brain will use this piece according to this piece. The state of the area is used to complement the appearance of other dark areas.
also has a very happy marriage
At this time, people will inevitably have the concept of preconceived in their cognition. When they fantasize about other areas, they also feel that it is the same as what they see.
In the promotion of TV and the Internet, people prefer to watch other people's misfortunes compared to happy marriages. Since some people like them, the news media will report on the misfortunes of rather than happy marriages.
So many times only unfortunate marriages have entered people's cognition, and people will make up for the appearance of marriage by themselves, which makes biased .
It is particularly important to have a clear mind at this moment .
It is important to correctly understand marriage
Recognize the true situation of modern society, Even the elderly need to live sex , which shows the importance of love, and I hope everyone has a happy marriage.
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