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Many women live a bad life after marriage, and will regret their original choice. They will think that if they followed their parents' advice and did not marry, will they not be able to do so now. occur? They also know that time cannot be reversed, but they still feel it often. It turns out that an inadvertent choice can really influence the direction of life.
people have no future plans and will have immediate worries. If a person only considers the present moment and does not consider the future, then he will suffer losses and be deceived in the future, and it will be too late to regret it.
From this perspective, those who really live well are often visionary people.
They don’t just look at the surface when looking at the problem, but can see the essence through the surface. They consider the pros and cons of a thing, nor do they only consider the present moment, and do not consider the future, but instead look at the long-term and open the situation. It's very big.
In terms of marriage and love, they will not only consider whether the other party’s family has money or how they are doing to themselves at this stage, but will first inquire about the following three things, which is the guarantee of a good life in the future.
1: Inquire about the other party’s reputation and ensure that their values and character are not problematic
No matter what kind of interpersonal relationships, reputation is an extremely important credential. If you want to know how a person’s character is, look at You can probably figure it out by looking at what others say about him.
A person's statement may not be credible, but if everyone says this, it means that your impression in the eyes of everyone is fixed. This is related to your long-term way of being a human being and cannot be concealed.
Xiaofang broke off the engagement with her ex because she heard that his father had a bad character. Not only was he a drunkard for many years, he also often lost his temper and committed violence against his family.
Not only that, he also owed money but refused to pay it back, and offended all his relatives and friends.
If you marry into such a family, your life will be difficult to be peaceful in the future. So after weighing the pros and cons, Xiaofang felt that the two of them were not suitable and stopped the loss in time.
2: Inquire about the daily atmosphere of the other party’s family. Only when the family style is good can you feel happier
The impact of the growth environment on a person is self-evident. If you live in a loving family for a long time, your personality is mostly Gentle, mostly docile, and has emotional intelligence and literacy in dealing with people. You can better take care of your partner and manage your marriage and family better.
On the contrary, if the family atmosphere is not good, often in chaos and chaos, then children who grow up in such a family environment are mostly introverted or withdrawn, and sensitive and suspicious.
You will feel very tired when you get along with such a person. Even if you say something inadvertently, it may touch his glass heart and then conflict will occur.
Families with good family style will feel happier. If the family style is not good, it is not worth getting married no matter how rich you are.
3: Inquire whether the other party’s family is in debt, find out the reasons for the debt, and avoid future risks
Most of the families with heavy debts have problems. If you marry such a family, you must be mentally prepared at any time. On the one hand, you have to worry about whether your life will be very difficult in the future. On the other hand, you have to worry about whether the other party will have a bad view and conduct moral kidnapping of you and your family .
still has to worry. What if they ask you for help, will you help or not?
Gang violates its own principles. After all, if you don’t help the poor, their family is a bottomless pit; if you don’t help, it will easily hurt your relationship and affect your relationship.
is wrong anyway, which is basically equivalent to digging a hole for yourself to jump.
In addition, you have to find out the reason why they are in debt, is it because of the failure of investment or is it involved in bad habits such as gambling? The former shows that they are too greedy and eager for quick success, while the latter shows that they have problems with character and morality. No matter which one it is, it is not worth getting along with, let alone getting married.
Before getting married, only by asking if the other party’s family is in debt and finding the reason for the debt can we avoid risks in the future. Otherwise, there may be constant trouble.
at the end:
Marriage is a lifelong event. Whether it is a man or a woman, you must maintain enough rationality in marriage and love. Don’t make choices randomly because of impulse. You will understand later that the right or wrong choices will really affect your entire life.
is a bit visionary, more realistic and sober. This is not scheming, but really being responsible for yourself and your family.
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