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Marriage is like a comic For a long journey, the destination is the rest of your life, and the end is the end of your life.
The moment when two people entered the marriage hand in hand, it means that they will accompany each other on this trip from now on. At the moment when they held hands, they were really determined to live a lifelong life.
is just a matter of marriage, and it has never been done once and for all, and there are unexpected variables.
When they first started getting married, the two were still in a stage of affection and could not wait to devote themselves to the small family. They were full of freshness between each other. Even if the two people face each other every day, they would not feel bored. Feel novel.
And as time goes by, when the initial enthusiasm of the two people is exhausted, love is reduced by the food, rice, oil and salt, and what is replaced by disgust.
Especially when people reach middle age, the few loves between husband and wife have been replaced by family affection. The pattern of getting along has entered template and mechanization. The topic between two people becomes boring, and they can no longer see the advantages of each other. They often do not know each other's strengths. I feel that this marriage is dull, boring and boring.
Even so, most people are sticking to their conscience and bottom line, sticking to their original marriage vows, and betting on all their thoughts in the family and on the other party.
But a small number of people separate their hearts and give them to people from the outside world to find freshness outside.
Middle-aged stage is often the peak period of extramarital relationships. They cannot withstand the trivialities of marriage, cannot withstand the temptation of the outside world, and finally do something betrayal.
Generally speaking, middle-aged men are most likely to have extramarital relationships with these three types of women, which is very real.
Young and beautiful, bold and enthusiastic women
Men have a "lustful" side. No matter what stage of this, no matter what age they reach, they cannot change.
When men reach middle age, they are most likely to be attracted by young and beautiful women. On the one hand, it is because the "lust" in their nature is fully exposed, and on the other hand, it is because they can find their long-lost youthful feelings in the other person.
doesn't really like it, but it's just that I'll be attracted by the vibrant enthusiasm of young women.
As my partner’s skin gradually loosens and my figure is distorted. As long as a young and beautiful woman appears beside her, it is like a beam of light appears, which will make my heart unable to help but ripples.
But the biggest difference is that some people really implement it with actions, while others have the heart but not the courage to take that step easily.
And if the other party is bolder and more enthusiastic at this time, basically few men can resist it.
TV series "The Second Hug" and " Thirty Only " are similar scenes. The third party Lin Youyou and Wang Man both meet the young and bold conditions. They don't care whether each other has a family at all. They are bold and enthusiastic. He ran towards the other party's arms, and in the end the men did something wrong.
Young and beautiful women generally have no resistance. At this time, as long as the woman is a little bolder, extramarital relationships will be easily established.
can give men considerate and caring women
I remember once saw a video that for a while, men went home very late on the grounds of working overtime every day.
In the long run, the woman couldn't help but feel suspicious and secretly ran to the men's company to find out.
It turns out that men are not really working overtime, but are playing games at work. They would rather stay outside and spend time playing games than go home. The woman is angry now.
At this time, the man coughed a few times. Seeing this, a female colleague in the unit poured a glass of water for the man, expressed her concern, and said goodbye and left the company.
It was not until the woman saw this scene that she began to reflect on herself. I don’t know when, even the act of pouring water for a man was gone. Even if a man catches a cold, he will feel that it is not a serious illness, and even cares about it. They are also stingy in expressing themselves, let alone expressing concern with practical actions.
It seems that what I give him now is complaining and accusations. The two of them quarreled at any time. Originally, as their wife, they should have given him the most warmth, but in the end, they took the initiative to give him the opportunity to care for him, which was not even as good as an outsider.
I think this is also a common state of getting along with many middle-aged couples. After being together for a long time, even their concerns are unnecessary. They never take the initiative to care for their lovers and push the other person out of the door with a cold attitude.
And each of us has the need to be loved and cared for. When we can't get it from our lover, we will seek it from the outside. When one day the woman outside can give men considerate care, the man's heart will naturally deviate.
When people reach middle age, men have a lot of pressure in life. If the woman who comes home complains and accuses keeps complaining and accusing her, it is the woman's disregard for not caring or understanding, then men will be easily treated by those who can give him care and understanding. The person kidnapped.
Women who can help men in career
Zhang Ailing In " Half-life Relationship " wrote: Middle-aged men often feel lonely because when they open up Open your eyes, rely on him around you People, but there is no one he can rely on.
Why is it said that middle age is often the peak period of extramarital relationships? This is probably the main reason.
Many people think that men become bad when they have money. Middle-aged men have stable careers, which is more likely to arouse external aspirations. But in fact, even when people reach middle age, there will be pressure in their careers. Many men still have to face the danger of unemployment at any time when they reach middle age.
The pressure on career often needs to be shared by the couple. If a woman can become a man's left and right hand, giving him support and support is the best way.
However, many women cannot do this, treating men as their own support and completely do not understand his situation.
is like Luo Zijun in " My First Half of Life ". She regards marriage as a safe haven and Chen Junsheng as her own barrier. She doesn't understand Chen Junsheng's career difficulties at all.
So in the end, Chen Junsheng chose a woman with a bad appearance, had an extramarital relationship with her, and decided to divorce.
When a man reaches middle age, he can easily develop extramarital relationships with his women who can help him in his career. It can be material and status help, or mutual appreciation. When encountering such a woman, men will have the joy of meeting their confidants and can't help but lean their hearts towards each other.
people are middle-aged and their marriage is in trouble, and they are in a state of disgust with each other. At this time, a person's heart is easily withdrawn.
Change of mind is instinct, and loyalty is choice. Some people can hold on to their hearts, while others can easily do something betrayal. Once
takes that step, it is destined that there will be cracks in this marriage, and even if you are willing to make up for it, it will be difficult to restore it.
so please think twice before doing it.
no longer loves you. If you want to leave, you can choose to leave the train of this marriage. You have the right to get off in advance, but please be sure to inform the other party, rather than using betrayal to make the other party completely fall into the ice cellar.
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