I don’t know what the future will be, maybe only the most worthwhile right now. If you don’t have a wish at this moment, how can you come in the future?
During festivals, eating with your relatives is the most embarrassing thing, because I really don’t know what to say, and even children of the same age as my relatives can’t find any common language. . Because over the years, everyone's situation has been different. My parents arranged for my younger brother, who had a job, had a car and a house at home, and my older sister, who had paid rent in one or three times and commuted to and from get off work for four hours a day, had already lived. It's not a life at all. However, the elders always say that it is better to have a job easier, just live your life...
There are also several relatives who are ordinary office workers. The jobs assigned after graduation have been completed until retirement. They said that when they were young, they had never thought about what kind of person they wanted to become. They just assigned this job, guarded and worked, and then started a family, took their salary home, and supported their families. They had never thought about anything else. Then the days came by like this.
Are they satisfied? They said that it is also good, life is short, it is a day to be happy like this, and it is also a day to be unhappy. I didn't think so much, I thought it was pretty good. They may be what most of our elders look like. I have no experience of strong winds and waves, no ability to call the wind and rain or shock the earth, I just do a job and use this salary to support my family is life itself.
I found that after half of my life, both of these people are very satisfied with the status quo. Either it is the path you choose, it is very hard and willing; or it is just living a simple life unconsciously, and it is always content and happiness.
Passive choice and regret in life, and there is no time to choose, including passive responsibility. What I think is, if a junior asked me "Are you satisfied with my life?" when I was 60 years old, what would I answer?
Those who can say "I am not satisfied" should have a sad life.
Why is it not satisfied with it? Passive choice is the most helpless thing in life. Passively choose a job you don’t like, and then do it for a lifetime; or passively choose a partner you don’t like, and then make do with it, and then you will be the whole life. These two words really should be what we don’t want to happen the least. In fact, these two major events are the root cause of dissatisfaction with the status quo. Passive choice and acceptance, can you say this is fate?
For the rest of my life, I should be too young, and I have the deepest awe of fate. Even people as optimistic as me are unwilling to passively choose or accept, and then say "this is fate." I heard the elders over fifty years old really say such words, which was shocked and taken as a warning.
I think if you really want to leave your destiny, you should not passively choose and accept it from the beginning, do your best, and then leave it to fate.
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