People’s lives are inseparable from the word “love”.
Especially in the second half of life, we leave our parents' protection and gain a foothold in society.
At this stage, it is easy for everyone to notice that loneliness is a difficult thing.
If you have a partner who knows the cold and the hot, it is undoubtedly a kind of happiness. When you encounter difficulties, someone will come up with advice to solve them. When you are lonely, someone will accompany you to spend time.
Time flies, because with someone’s company, we will feel that the world is worth it.
However, feelings are often not allowed.
For friends, only by finding someone who fits you can, after getting married, the two can grasp the happiness they want, and such fate will make people more contented.
If there is no bridge of true love between each other, even if there is the opportunity to get along day and night, both parties will only end up with the end of fate day by day in trivial matters.
1. Marriage is the second life of a woman.
Someone said:
Before determining the relationship, no matter how cautious a woman is, it is not an exaggeration.
actually makes some sense.
From the perspective of emotional development, a woman's first half of her life often grows under the protection of family affection. However, when they leave their original family and enter their married life, the life status of women is often closely related to their husbands.
The rest of a woman's life is closely related to marriage.
When you get married, women often start a second life state.
For everyone, if you want to keep the happiness of the rest of your life, you must open your eyes, start by talking about love, choose a man who is truly good to you, and grasp the man who is willing to always protect you.
Romance is temporary, warmth is lifelong.
As a girl, you should know that only when a man treats you sincerely and regards you as his partner for the rest of his life, will he be focused and loyal in this relationship. Even if two people encounter differences, this man will tolerate you and give in to you.
2. If you want to marry you, men will hint you like this.
Many times, girls are emotional.
Especially when they meet the boy they like.
Deep in a woman's heart, that romantic thought is aroused.
In this case, people are prone to follow their feelings and even do many emotional behaviors. "Zero IQ" is a common behavior for many girls in love.
And love is often confusing.
Sometimes, a man approaches you just with a playful attitude. In order to win your favor, he will please you with sweet words and make some sacrifices and efforts for you.
If a girl lacks the wisdom of judgment, she will fall into the trap of emotion.
Once a wrong choice is made, the girl will get deeper and deeper in this relationship. As a result, everyone will accumulate more and more disappointments, and in the end they will never believe in the existence of true love.
From the perspective of girls, how can we avoid taking detours in emotional life? This requires everyone to remain rational, reject those men with ulterior motives, and seize the men who are willing to protect you for the rest of your life.
Treat you as your partner, and men will give "hints", don't ignore it.
First: Understand with your heart and want to be the person who understands you.
Everyone’s energy is limited.
For rational men, they will spend time on important things.
At the age of love, when you meet a girl you like, men will take out part of their energy and try to squeeze into the other person's world, hoping to fulfill love in this way.
If sincerity is the prerequisite for love.
Then understanding and tolerance are the key to the continuation of love.
If a man is just a playful attitude, he will naturally not spend a lot of time on girls. The understanding of women is often superficial.
However, when men have true feelings, they will hope to be someone who understands each other.
Love will make people become grand. When a man really falls in love with you, he will try every means to inquire about you. Whenever he hears about you, this person will be very interested.
Only because of deep love, men will try their best to understand you. I hope they can truly understand you for the rest of their lives.
Second: Actively please, there is no bottom line for giving.
Everyone has dignity.
Especially men, most of them love face.
In interpersonal communication, men pay attention to the evaluation of others and also have their own philosophy of doing things. In order to maintain their personal dignity, they strive to become gentlemanly and give people a feeling of generosity and decent.
But there is one person, which is an exception to men.
That is the woman who touches your heart and makes you miss you involuntarily.
When a man's heart appears such a girl, they will muster up the courage, put face aside, and launch the offensive of pursuit from then on.
In order to please the girl you love, men work hard and do everything for love.
If men just like a certain girl, they often have a sense of responsibility when they give. And when a man has a woman he can't let go in his heart, they will become emotional and hope to give the best things to girls.
And such men will also work hard for the happiness of girls.
Because he loved this woman so much, he had long regarded this woman as his partner for the rest of his life.
Third: I like to look forward to it, I hope you will have in the future.
Love is romantic.
After meeting true love, even rational men will become fantasy.
He will long for the romantic world of two people with his love. In order to achieve this goal, men will constantly change and improve themselves, hoping to be worthy of girls and give them enough happiness.
Of course, men don’t love you.
He will only perfunctory you and will pour cold water on you with a realistic attitude.
Even if you take the initiative to propose, your relationship with the other party will be further improved, and a man who doesn’t love you will only pass it by.
If a man falls in love with you completely, he will be responsible for the rest of your life.
In front of you, he will have a happy vision, and of course this vision will be implemented in action. Just because of love, men will have the opportunity to grow faster and make them responsible.
people's hearts are unpredictable.
Even if a boy is confident that he wants to love you for the rest of his life, maybe he will become a unfaithful man and choose to leave you.
Only a man who truly loves you will focus on your relationship.
Because I love you deeply, this man will overcome all difficulties, give you a sense of happiness and down-to-earth, and gradually become your emotional destination. True love is reflected in action and in details.
I hope every girl can meet someone who treats her sincerely and become the object that men are willing to protect for the rest of their lives.
Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional deep-rooted person with attitude. Write warmth in the world and read heartwarming stories, and thank you for being with you all the way. I only wish that the years are quiet and good, and that the clouds and winds are light, and that you and I can express your heartfelt love when you meet in a paragraph of words.