Author 丨 Windillill
Of course, this conclusion does not show absoluteization, because no matter girls or boys, there are actually love brain .
But in general, if the group is compared with girls, the rational value of boys is definitely higher. Girls will be more emotional, as well as the way and logic of thinking about problems.
I often receive some girls' love in the background. Sometimes I can't help but feel that the answers are already in front of them. Many girls still deceive themselves. Continue to hit the second time, the third time, the N times.
did not really turn away until all the expectations of their hearts were consumed.
But in most expectations, it is not because the boys are really worth it, but their hearts about love are particularly beautiful, so the boys have become a carrier -they give this expectation to the other party to the other party On the body, no matter whether it can do it, it is doing self -strategy.
, then, when he arrived, he really convinced himself, thinking that the person in front of you was very good.
HTML is young, you believe in love, everyone has a natural and romantic moment. However Love is too important for girls. For them like
, may be unacceptable and collapsed in the face when facing some truth about love.
Actually, is there any possibility, not the reality of the other party, but that you expect too high from the beginning?
I want to say the real experience of a girl.
, she has been together with her boyfriend for almost 3 years. When she wants to enter the marriage hall, the two broke up at this time. The reason why
breaks up is mainly because her boyfriend's house does not agree with her. In the end, her boyfriend said that she could not care about her parents' thoughts, so she could only be sorry for her.
About this, I want to tell you a heart -hearted reality: When a boy rejected you under the guise of your parents, it basically means him.
You don't have to get rid of anything for him, of course, you don't have to slander anything -you are not his firm choice, it is that simple, and this does not mean that his past like you are not true.
likes it, but in the face of reality and pros and cons, everyone will weigh it. At this time, it depends on whether your own chips are enough, or how much your weight in the other person's heart is. The reason why
broke up because of the marriage, the house of boys and boys thought that her parents were from the countryside, and their parents had no pension, no retirement salary, and the pressure on the elderly in the future was relatively high. The boys were in the city in the city. Although the only child, although the family is not particularly good, it is also worry -free. Parents do not need to worry about children as long as they are not sick when they are old.
is white, that is, boys want to find a girl who is right, and she can fall in love but cannot get married.
was at that time, the girl faced the breakup and was particularly collapsed. She couldn't understand, because in her opinion, the three years together were still very happy and very sweet. Her scene also said that she had to have two children after marriage. Anyway, the blueprint for marriage describes it.
and she is all true.
She once did not doubt that they would definitely be able to get married, and they could also marry love.
did not expect, in the end it was the result.
says a real thing. If time goes back to three or four years, I should follow this girl to scold the scumbag and feel angry, but now I have seen it, and after I have experienced something, I face the mentality of this kind of mentality. It was a lot different from before.
people go to high places, and the water flows to the low place. Everyone wants to pursue better things, and everyone has their own interests. Even if this person has not passed, it does If you change, you must never use a standard to measure someone.
Therefore, your expectations of others must also change with time, and continuously increase your added value, so that you will not be disappointed.
is not only this girl. I have encountered a lot of girls. When facing the other half of the changes, they always compare them with carefulness and love when they are together. He thought that he used to be him before. Obviously I love me, and I said that goodness is never separated. Why does it change in the end? Isn't it normal?
You can't accept it because you are trapped in your imagination, thinking that love can always be the same.
In fact, this kind of thing can be encountered. 's real love is always envied because of their scarcity, and not everyone can encounter it. It may not be encountered.
, but it doesn't matter if you can't meet it. Even if you can't meet, you have to live your own life and add love to the icing on the cake, not trying to make love a life -saving straw.
is like this, you will only lose.
has a certain experience, and you will eventually wake up: the most important thing in the hearts of mature men is never love.
Love is just one of the lives of life. Meeting love is to make everything better, not the existence of hinders.
is actually as a girl, and you should also have such a state of mind. At the same time,
, at the same time, the weighing balance in love, you have to learn to treat objectively. Someone thinks that you are not the best choice, and finally give up you, do not doubt yourself. Everyone's standards are different, and you can't stop others from pursuing what he is in his heart. This is also an instinct of human nature. In the final analysis, we can change and restrict the only one.
You see this truth, and basically it will not be easily injured in love.
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