1. When I went back to my hometown to see old friends, one of them said, let’s call everyone over. We haven’t seen each other for so many years, and everyone will get together when the classmates come back.
Well, I said, as long as you and the other person are there, that’s enough. You know, I don't like liveliness or socializing. If there are too many people, it will become a scene. I just thought it would be nice for us to have a nice chat with you two.
Time is precious and should only be given to the people you love the most.
2. There is a term in psychology called " backfire effect ". If the corrected message is contrary to people's original views, it will deepen people's trust in the wrong information. This is the backfire effect. The act of correcting information is like a backfired gun. Although it did not shoot out the bullet, it "hit" the rumor, making the corrected (or original) true information even less marketable. When people are passively bombarded with information, they will have an instinct to protect their existing opinions from external information. Slowly, the backfire effect will make you doubt yourself less and less, and eventually you will take your own opinions as a matter of course. This also explains why we often see people who are deceived and insist on sending money to the scammers. The police and banks do not believe them no matter how they explain, and they cannot stop them no matter what. Or maybe the elderly like health care products, but it is useless for their children to present a bunch of scientific truth or even evidence of product fraud.
3. Sanlian has an article discussing why young people are becoming more and more “dare not”? I saw a comment: "As someone who is no longer young, let me say this: I think it is not the young people who have the problem. What turned the vitality and adventure ten years ago into landing and involution? Everyone has their own judgment.
4 ." Without terrible depths, there would be no beautiful water. —— Nietzsche
5. From a small sample observation, some people who are a little awkward to get along with, and often make people sigh "Why does he think/do that?" When asked, it is often found that they have never been in love. This is not to say that being single is bad, nor to promote hegemonic thinking such as "life without love is incomplete", but to simply describe it. Close love relationships do force people to develop some boundary awareness and skills in managing expectations.
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