A calm person, with a very steady demeanor and calm composure in situations.
At work and in life, if you want to leave a calm impression on others, what kind of performance is needed.
1. Learn to put time and energy on yourself.
Don't care what others say about you. First of all, you must spend your time and energy on yourself. At least in this way, you will have the possibility of others changing their minds. At that time, you no longer care about other people's thoughts.
2, can endure loneliness.
Only by being able to withstand the loneliness of the present can we maintain the prosperity of the future. If you take a long view, the road will be longer; if you can withstand the long years, the years will return you to perfection.
When we are working, when we are working hard, we often do not stay with our loved ones for the sake of our career. We spend this time busy alone in obscurity. If you survive this period, life will give you a satisfactory answer.
Every outstanding person has a period of silence. During that time, we put in a lot of efforts but could not see the results. We call it taking root.
3. Stop being too lazy and diligent.
If you often make excuses for yourself when doing things, and often don’t get anxious until the moment you have to hand in the results, you need to change.
likes to procrastinate when doing things, and always thinks that everything will be almost done. In many cases, it is a kind of avoidance behavior, and it is subconscious laziness and not wanting to face difficulties. When a person truly desires change, he will not make excuses for himself. They know what they want, and they also know how to be self-vigilant from the root cause and avoid taking chances.
4. Pay attention to accumulation.
does not spend three days fishing and two days drying the net. For some things, you always hope that the results will come out at once. If you persist for a day or two, you will lose motivation. Over time, you will become less persistent in doing things.
When facing problems, work harder, persist more, and accumulate bit by bit will bring you a lot of gains.
The world has never favored anyone who gets something for nothing, nor has it let down everyone who works hard. When
is wandering and confused, don’t question your efforts. Know that your accumulation is silently paving the way for you. Please believe that if you run hard, good things will come as expected.
5. Start reading.
If a person wants to achieve extraordinary achievements in his life, he is destined to be inseparable from reading and lifelong learning.
Read more, read good books, read books that interest you, and do not spend less than 1 hour reading every day.
Live and learn. Reading is not just for students, but also for continuous reading after entering the workplace.
The importance of reading to a person is not only to acquire new knowledge, but also to help us maintain our thinking ability and energetic state.
Reading is the lowest-cost investment in the world. You can draw sufficient spiritual nourishment from the vast books to continuously improve and improve yourself; you can also draw superior wisdom from the vast books and broaden your thinking and structure.
6. Start improving your abilities.
Improve your abilities when you are young so that you can solve most of the problems in life.
accumulate your own abilities and skills. Learn from work, practice, synthesize and improve.
makes yourself knowledgeable and skilled. It is always more meaningful to improve yourself than to look up to others. Be confident in your life, be confident in your work, and be steady in your work. Then you will be a popular person wherever you go.
7. Get rid of the habit of procrastination.
Procrastination and waiting are situations that many people will encounter. Try to improve them. I started reviewing before the
final exam. I waited until the sixth day of the work week and started taking action on the seventh day. I gave a speech that was notified a few days in advance, but I didn't practice it well. I didn't perform well on the stage. These are all about putting off things until they must be completed. You can see if you have these situations, plan your own time, and become self-disciplined. What
can do in 5 minutes, do it immediately without procrastination.Start preparing for things that can be done in the morning and don’t delay.
8. Will not get into trouble when encountering problems.
A person who starts to become calm can deal with things calmly, take his time, and find solutions, instead of being disorganized because of what has happened. In the end, he gives up solving problems and wanders around. complain.
9. Emotionally stable.
knows how to control emotions and face the people and things around him with an optimistic attitude. People with stable emotions see the world with a pure heart and live life with a happy heart.
Live and work with a positive attitude, face everyone calmly, face some difficulties at work calmly, understand and respect others, and strive to be yourself!
10. Manage your own time.
divides his own affairs into four quadrants : important and urgent, important and not urgent, urgent and not important, not urgent and not important. Put your energy down on important things. Deal with important and urgent matters in advance, stick to important but not urgent matters every day, and the accumulation of time is also very important.
ensures that it handles the first two quadrants every day.
You should also know what to do first, what to do all the time, and what to do later.
11. Shut up.
Keep your mouth shut. This is actually a "high requirement" for yourself. Take care of your mouth, don't speak for the sake of pleasure and talk freely. Don't gossip about others, and don't talk about others behind their backs.
Don't say unpleasant words because you are angry, and don't make unfulfilled promises because you are happy.
Don't talk about your various experiences and family secrets in front of others. When getting along, you must know how to speak appropriately.
own plans, major decisions, do not make "jars". Don't show off what you haven't accomplished yet.
12. Learn to be grateful.
Always be grateful. Learn to cherish those who have helped you and repay them promptly. Encourage each other and be kind to each other.
A person must learn to remember the benefits of others, remember every little thing that helps you, be grateful for their help, and repay them in good faith. This should also be one of the principles for your life and work.
Gratitude is like the sun, it can shine on yourself and make you feel warm. Gratitude is like raindrops, which can nourish yourself and make you feel the fragrance of growth.
In your life, you should be less impetuous and perfunctory, more calm and serious; less impulsive, more calm; less careless, more careful; less negative, more positive.
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