Preface:
"The mother who has no children comes to provide for her elderly care, but she drives away the mother-in-law who has taken care of the children for 10 years. The husband: poor, and I: get lost." This is what happened to Ms. Chen. What is going on? ? Let’s take a look together!
Ms. Chen’s self-report:
I am an only child, and my parents love me very much. Later I met my husband. My husband comes from a rural area. He has three sons in his family. I thought it was quite strange. If we were talking about favoring sons over daughters, my mother-in-law had already given birth to two sons, so she shouldn’t have a third son. Later, my husband asked my husband, and my husband said that because in their rural areas, they think the more children the better, He felt that having children was a blessing, so his mother raised three children.
When I married my husband, because my husband had little money, my parents were afraid that I would not live well after marriage, so they used their pension money to buy me a dowry house. What my parents did Because, it really moved me, I think they are really great.
I got pregnant not long after my husband and I got married. My health was very poor after I got pregnant. At that time, I was in a state of confusion every day. I wanted to resign, but I was worried that it would be difficult to find a job in the future, so I gritted my teeth and persevered. Yes, I'll follow My husband said that he hopes that my mother-in-law will come to live with us and help with some housework. Because I am pregnant and in poor health, I cannot do housework, and my husband is very busy at work. It is already 12 when I get home from work. After a while, he was even less able to do housework.
Later, my husband told me that his mother did not want to come over. I had no choice at that time, so I had to take care of myself. Later, the child was born. After the child was born, my mother-in-law did not come to take care of me. My mother-in-law could always figure it out. For various reasons, I am very disappointed with my mother-in-law. To put it bluntly, my mother-in-law is just lazy. She thinks taking care of children is too hard, and she doesn’t want to live such a hard life.
I had no choice but to ask my mother to take care of me and the child. Because of my mother's help, I was able to return to work normally. Later I became pregnant with my second child. My mother also took care of me when I was pregnant with my second child. My mother helps me take care of my two children. I am really grateful to my mother. I feel that my mother has paid a lot for me.
Time flies so fast. In the blink of an eye, my mother has lived in my home for ten years. During these ten years, my mother has really worked very hard. I watched my mother’s hair slowly turn white. I feel very distressed. I am in my heart. I silently vowed inside that I would definitely provide for my mother in her old age and let her enjoy her old age in peace.
But what I didn’t expect was that at that time, my mother-in-law came to our house and said that she wanted to take care of herself in our home. My mother-in-law said that she was old and could no longer take care of herself, so she could only rely on me and me. My husband was married, and I felt quite angry at the time. My mother-in-law has three sons, why should she rely on my husband alone? Shouldn't the other sons share some of the burden? Moreover, our home had three bedrooms and there were not enough rooms. Later, my husband asked my mother to move out. He said that my mother had been living in our home for ten years and should move out. When my husband said this, I felt I am very angry. My mother is not enjoying the blessings in our family, but helping. Normally, we should pay my mother's salary.
Because of this matter, I had a fight with my husband. My husband said to me arrogantly: "Let me tell you this, our family is too poor and cannot afford to support your mother, so you should let your mother go back." ! "I think my husband is a total white-eyed wolf, and then I treat my old man The father said: "Go away, I don't want to see you anymore. How can there be people like you? You white-eyed wolf, have you been married for a long time? You have forgotten who this house belongs to. This house was originally owned by My parents bought it with their pension funds, and it still has my parents’ names on it! How can you have the nerve to drive my mother away?” Because after I said this, my husband didn’t dare to speak.
Later, I divorced my husband. I felt that my husband was a white-eyed wolf and I didn’t want to live with my husband anymore. Although I also knew that divorce would be very harmful to my children, I didn’t want to let myself struggle in a painful marriage anymore. .
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