22-year-old Zhu Shanwei is remarrying.
Many young people of this age are still studying, and some are working hard for their future.
He was able to divorce and remarry within a year. I have to say that it is great to have a rich father.
How rich is Brother Dayi ?
Once he went to a bank to do a job, and the staff accidentally revealed that Brother Dayi earned 16 million a year. Others were stunned, but Brother Dayi sat there smiling and showing his teeth, without denying it.
With such an income, not only can I live without worries about food and clothing, but my children can also live a comfortable life without working.
Under this premise, Brother Dayi's son dropped out of junior high school before graduating. He was immersed in games and snacks all day long, and his figure became visibly fatter.
Brother Dayi has a traditional personality, which is reflected in two points.
First, he loves face and cares about what people in his hometown think.
Many people wonder why Brother Dayi doesn’t move away from his hometown and buy a villa to live more comfortably if he has enough financial strength.
In my hometown, the gate is crowded with people taking pictures every day. Villagers ranging from 70-year-olds to teenagers make a living by taking pictures of Brother Da Yi. Some people describe the villagers as "parasites".
It sounds unpleasant, but it is also true. Brother Dayi feeds the entire village, but he also allows himself no privacy.
In order to gain a position, some people secretly climbed onto the wall to secretly take pictures. Some people extended their cameras from the windows into the room, and some even kicked open his courtyard door without mercy.
Brother Dayi endured it. It was not that he had no temper, but that he did not want to offend the villagers.
His patience also indulged the laziness of the villagers. These people could have gone out to work, but slowly, they gave up their jobs because it was faster to make money by filming Brother Dayi's videos.
Secondly, children don’t have to be talented, as long as they can start a family.
Brother Dayi also hopes that his children will study well, but when he saw that his children had dropped out of school and stayed at home, he did not blame him.
His request for his son is: "Find a sensible wife and start a good family."
His request for his daughter: " Marry closer and have children."
Under his tolerance, The children can also have fun. Neither of them likes to talk or go out. They spend a lot of time at home, either playing games or watching TV.
The son has grown up, and someone has arranged a matchmaking. The woman is a nurse, slim and beautiful.
Brother Dayi fell in love with him at first sight, drove a big three wheel to deliver gifts, and helped his son get married. Many people said that Chen Yanan was interested in his family’s money. This is not a secret. Chen Yanan even said publicly: " I just You see, Brother Dayi wanted his son to have a stable marriage, so he found a woman with both talent and beauty for his son, but the woman only wanted money.
After getting married, Chen Yanan found that he was not happy even if he had money, while Zhu Shanwei had a dull personality. Standing in the live broadcast room was like a background board, and the gap between the two became wider and wider.
In such a marriage, everyone has their own agenda. In the end, both of them lost. Chen Yanan's reputation was ruined, and Zhu Shanwei also lost his marriage.
In fact, the result is not surprising. has a lot to do with the bottomless love of Brother Dayi.
There is a saying that goes well: "If a father is rich, it is easy to hurt his children."
Brother Dayi has arranged a worry-free life for his children. His money is enough for his children to squander, but he cannot replace their children's lives. Children who have no worries about food and clothing , and can't understand the parents' painstaking efforts.
In addition to starting a family, there is also a career to pursue in life.
If a person focuses all his attention on starting a family, he can achieve his goal, but his life will be a little empty.
is like Zhu Shanwei. He seems to have no worries about food and clothing, but he has no independent opinion in doing things. Even if he goes out to get a haircut, he has to wait for his father to give him money.
After the divorce, the main theme of Zhu Shanwei's life was blind dates. Soon, he met the woman he liked again.
Chen Meng is a primary school teacher and a former classmate of Zhu Shanwei. She seems to admire Zhu Shanwei very much and takes the initiative to express her affection.
A netizen reminded: "Chen Meng is very similar to Chen Yanan and is the next internet celebrity."
In this regard, Chen Meng promised three points: will not resign, will not broadcast live, and will not be pregnant.
She wants everyone to see that she and Zhu Shanwei have feelings. The two went shopping together, and she did not hide her feelings Love, looking at Zhu Shanwei with light in his eyes htm. l1
When a fan wanted to take a photo, Chen Meng would first help Zhu Shanwei tidy up his clothes, and then cuddle up next to him. This detail impressed Brother Da Yi, who praised Chen Meng for being reliable, gentle and virtuous.
Opening up the old chapter, Da Yi. My brother bought a wedding house for his son. An insider revealed that the 200-square-meter duplex house was luxuriously decorated. , all the furniture inside.
And Zhu Shanwei seems to have gained confidence. He straightens his back and his eyes are firm next to Chen Meng. He sometimes goes to the live broadcast room to chat with netizens.
Zhu Shanwei's love is there. It was so fast that many people didn’t even realize it, and the wedding date was already approaching.
This may also be Brother Dayi's wish. As long as his son gets married, his mission will be completed.
Rather than hearing about Zhu Shanwei's marriage, we want to see his career progress
and stay with his parents throughout his life. , no matter how comfortable the living conditions are, it is not practical.
remember. I read in a book that when Shanghai tycoon Du Yuesheng was seriously ill, he called his children to the bedside and asked them to open the safe.
The children all thought that there was a pile of cash or gold bars in the safe. , opened it, and found a stack of IOUs inside. Du Yuesheng's situation was much worse than before, but there were still many people who owed him money. Thousands, or even dozens of gold bars, the children would take these IOUs to claim their debts, and they would be able to live and feed themselves for the rest of their lives.
But Du Yuesheng made a surprising move, and had all the IOUs burnt. Tell your children that no one can make a living by asking for money. If you don't have the strength, holding an IOU will lead to disaster.
Du Yuesheng is wise. He knows that. Children have their own way to go. If a child has no future, what is the use of giving him more money? If the child has a future, why bother leaving money?
The best love a parent can have for his or her children is to cultivate their ability to live. Let him be independent.
Brother Dayi is kind. He is tolerant of his fellow villagers and dotes on his children, but his love lacks a sense of foresight. Sometimes, it is really good to be more cruel to his children.
In life, such fathers are not uncommon. Fathers with a good family background. They bought several apartments for their son so that he could collect rent without working. The father, who had no money, borrowed money to help his son start a family. They tried their best to support their son's life.
In fact, The more selfless the father, the more selfish the son. He has not experienced the hardships of life, so how can he understand your sincere words?
Instead of spending all his savings to pave the way for his son in life, it is better for the father to let his son suffer some hardships and let him have control over his life, so as to avoid suffering losses in the rest of his life.
Today’s topic: Are you optimistic about Brother Dayi’s son’s marriage?
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