The feelings between men and women in this world have always been impure. Whether it is a man or a woman, it is not a simple thing in itself to choose someone to get close to and become good friends who talk about everything.
Just think about it, there are so many people in the world, why are you so close to each other. To say that he doesn't have any good feelings in his heart would of course be a lie. Of course, it’s not necessarily true that there are too many emotions.
However, there are countless couples in this world. In the beginning, they were just friends of the opposite sex, but later they slowly discovered the shining points in each other and couldn't help but become irreplaceable people in each other's lives. Therefore, even if one day we cross the boundary of friendship, it is actually not a big deal.
Generally speaking, if a man and a woman want to live in peace after playing together and having a relationship, they must do these three things.
Whether you love or not, tell it clearly as soon as possible
In a story between two people, the more selfish you are and the more you only consider yourself, the more difficult the ending will be.
On the contrary, even if you would rather suffer a little more grievance, and give the other party a little more benefit, it can make the relationship better ease and develop. Especially when it comes to emotional issues, if you protect your own interests too much, you can easily suffer backlash.
Generally speaking, after you have a relationship, whether you love it or not, you should make it clear as soon as possible. If you love it, then let it take its course and be together. If you don’t love it, just explain it openly and honestly, and it will be okay naturally. Stay safe and sound.
Hiding words in your heart, wronging yourself, or misunderstanding the other party will make things develop in a worse direction and even cause more serious problems.
Never try to evade responsibility by chance.
Everything in this world has a price. Trying to evade the responsibilities you should bear, if you can escape for a while, it is difficult to escape for a lifetime.
Especially for feelings, the longer you delay, it will not allow time to explain. On the contrary, it will only make things worse and worse. It's like, when you don't like someone, just reject it directly. If you don't refuse or agree, it will make the other person sink more easily and make the consequences of the story more serious.
Therefore, after having a relationship, no matter whether you are a man or a woman, you should never try to evade responsibility by chance. Only by having the courage to speak clearly and thoroughly can you live in peace with each other.
The more you evade, the more irresponsible the illusion will be left to the other party, and the more difficult the ending will be.
Don’t hurt, don’t deny, respect the woman’s choice as much as possible
Between adult men and women, not all people are together because of love. Sometimes, maybe it's just a momentary impulse or a momentary misunderstanding. But no matter what the reason is, since we are destined to be together and have such an opportunity to get to know each other deeply, we should give sufficient recognition to the other party's efforts.
Therefore, after you have a relationship, no matter what the reason is, don’t hurt the other party at will, let alone deny the other party’s kindness to you. At the same time, you should respect the woman as much as possible. choose. Although it is said that in this story, it is consensual, but in any case, in this incident alone, the woman suffered more.
As long as you can do this, you will probably be fine. On the contrary, if you do the opposite, you may be able to gain temporary happiness, but one day, the consequences may be far beyond your imagination.
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