Shortly after Hu Gang and Li Jing got married, Hu Gang proposed an AA life just like his newlywed wife. To put it bluntly, he earned money and spent it himself. Of course Li Jing disagreed. After all, Hu Gang made such a request not long after they got married. What did he mean?

Shortly after Hu Gang and Li Jing got married, Hu Gang proposed an AA life just like his newlywed wife. To put it bluntly, he earned money and spent it himself. Of course Li Jing disagreed. After all, Hu Gang made such a request not long after they got married. What did he mean? If he said early on that the two of them would implement an AA system, then Li Jing might consider whether to marry Hu Gang? At this moment, Li Jing suddenly felt that Hu Gang was a scheming man. She asked angrily: Why didn't you tell me before we got married? And we are now married and we are a family, why do we have to be so clear-cut? If it's AA, can we still call it a couple?

Unexpectedly, Hu Gang replied: Can falling in love and getting married be the same? After getting married, you have to live. Isn’t the money you earn enough to support yourself? You have to spend my money to feel comfortable, right? Li Jing was speechless for a while. She didn't know what kind of medicine the man in front of her was selling. So Li Jing didn't talk to Hu Gang, just thinking that if you said AA system, let's do AA system, I want to see what tricks you want to play?

In fact, Hu Gang made such a request for no other reason. He is not that stingy man but he has his own plans. Now, Hu Gang's monthly salary is almost 10,000 yuan, and Li Jing's monthly salary is 5,000 yuan. In fact, Li Jing's monthly salary is enough for her, so he proposed the AA system. And the most important thing is that he wants to save part of his salary to buy a big house in the future.

The wedding house he and Li Jing currently live in is a second-hand house bought by Hu Gang's parents. It is still in an old community, so Hu Gang has always hoped to buy a big house in the future. It's just that he's not good at expressing himself and doesn't want his wife Li Jing to be upset about these things, so he doesn't tell her the truth. But since that day, Li Jing has been calculating in her heart: Just live one day at a time. If I don't love you Hu Gang anymore, don't blame me for being ruthless and unrighteous.

It was precisely because of this incident that the couple had been married for more than a year and had no plans to conceive or have children. However, in Hu Gang's opinion, he felt that it would be good for them to have a life of two just after they got married, so in the first year they Neither of them planned to have children. In the second year of their marriage, Hu Gang couldn't sit still when he saw that Li Jing still had no plans to have children. He was a little anxious because he had to have children sooner or later, so there was no reason to get married and not have children.

Unexpectedly, it was Li Jing’s turn to confront him this time: You want me to have a baby, right? I might as well tell you the truth, my current monthly salary is not enough for me. I will be pregnant by then and will not be able to go to work to make money. I will have no income for a while. So how am I going to support myself and my children? I'm not stupid, I won't give birth to a child! Hu Gang grinned and said: "Looking at what you said, it seems that we are a couple, aren't we?" If you were really pregnant and had no income at home, wouldn't I still be working? Is it possible for me not to support you and the children? As long as you are willing to have children, I will immediately give you half of your salary. Now you can rest assured!

Li Jing said angrily: If you want me to give you a child now, you are willing to give me half of your salary. I advise you not to have any wild ideas, I am not willing to give you a child! Just when the couple was at a stalemate over having a child, another incident happened to Hu Gang's parents in their hometown. The house where Hu Gang's parents lived in the countryside was flooded due to the continuous rain for more than ten days. A lot of rainwater poured into the house, and even the walls of the room were severely affected by moisture and became moldy.

As a last resort, Hu Gang had to take his parents from the countryside to his home for a period of transition. In fact, he wanted to buy a small house for his parents to live in, but now he was unable to do so, so he had to decide to bring his parents from the countryside to live with him without consulting Li Jing. . When his employer pays him a bonus at the end of the year, he plans to sell the wedding house where he lives now and buy a bigger house. Then he can bring his parents to live together.

Hu just got home that day and said to Li Jing: My parents are coming to live with us for a while tomorrow. Their house in the countryside has been flooded by rain. It’s not like you don’t know that the room is moldy and damp and it’s impossible to live in it. . So if they plan to come over and transition for a while, you should be fine, right? Li Jing was surprised and a little angry and said: What can I say? Haven't you already cut it off first and then reported it later? They are coming tomorrow and what can I say? Anyway, now that you are more capable, you just do it without discussing it with me. What can I say?

Hu Gang was a little angry after hearing this: How could you say that? Those are my parents, and they are also your parents-in-law. Don’t you care about their life and death at all? They live in such a damp and moldy house, don't you feel sorry for them? Li Jing didn't want to talk to Hu Gang: Okay, okay, I don't want to talk to you anymore. In short, do what you like. Anyway, your parents paid for the house we live in now. I have no say, you can just make your own decision.

The next day, Li Jing saw her parents-in-law when she got home from get off work. Li Jing did not show any expression on her face and just shouted to her parents-in-law: Dad, Mom, you are here. Then she turned and went into her room. She didn't leave the room again all night. Li Jing thought: Hu Gang is not willing to give me a penny of his salary, so naturally I won't look good on my parents-in-law. Since her parents-in-law moved home, Li Jing still does whatever she is supposed to do. If she doesn't cook at home, she basically won't eat the food her mother-in-law cooks at home.

Every time she went out to buy fruits, snacks, etc., she would carry them directly back to her room. For Li Jing, she became more like an outsider after her parents-in-law came to this home. After a few days like this, Hu Gang couldn't bear it anymore: "Look, what do you look like every day?" How could you treat my parents like this? You cry all day long as if someone owes you money. You know how uncomfortable it must be for my parents to see you like this.

Li Jing said nonchalantly: What do you want me to do to your parents? Should I treat them as my biological parents, or should I worship them as Bodhisattvas? Don’t you know the main reason? Because you don't take me seriously and don't treat me as a family member, so why should I take your parents so seriously? Hu Gang understood why Li Jing said that, and he said patiently: You can't say that. Apart from not giving you the money I earned after we got married, what else did I, Hu Gang, do wrong? If you feel tired and don't want to do the housework, then let me do it. Whenever you call me when you get off work late, I will drive to pick you up. What else are you dissatisfied with?

Li Jing said: But it was clearly you who said that you should earn your own money and spend it yourself. Now you are taking your parents home to take care of them in old age. I only have enough money to support myself. You should take care of your parents yourself. What does serving have to do with me? After the couple quarreled over this matter, Li Jing became even more serious. She went home later and later under the guise of working overtime every day. Anyway, she either stayed in the unit to work overtime or went out to eat, shop and drink with friends. , doing beauty treatments, in short, just giving myself all kinds of reasons to go home late.

Such days lasted for a month. My mother-in-law was not a fool, so she saw the clues and found that the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law was not harmonious. Moreover, the daughter-in-law was not willing to give birth to a child. When Li Jing came home that night, it was already 11 o'clock in the evening. Her mother-in-law was still watching TV on the sofa in the living room. When she saw Li Jing, her mother-in-law said: Li Jing, you are finally back. , come here and sit for a while, Mom has something to tell you. You and Hu Gang have been married for almost three years. It stands to reason that you should make plans for having a child. If I have a child as soon as possible while I am still in good health, I can also help you take care of the child.

Li Jing said: Mom, I know, I don’t want to have children, which makes you feel uncomfortable to some extent, but you don’t know that I still feel aggrieved. Ever since Hu Gang and I got married, he has asked to make an AA with me. , he didn’t want to give me a penny. My money can only be used to support myself. If I get pregnant and have a baby and lose my job, then I will have to drink northwest wind. Since Hu Gang has treated me like this, I will Why give him a child?

After hearing this, the mother-in-law smiled and said: Even if you earn money and spend it alone, as long as you have a child, doesn't Hu Gang still care about you two? Li Jing said impatiently: "Mom, I'm just going to leave my words here today. If Hu Gang is unwilling to hand over his salary, then he doesn't want me to have children." After hearing what her daughter-in-law said, her mother-in-law couldn't calm down for a long time, and Li Jing felt even more uncomfortable. She felt that her parents-in-law were not the kind of sensible people. Otherwise, why didn't she think there was something wrong with her son, and instead kept urging her to have a child?

After getting off work that night, Li Jing asked a few friends to go out for dinner. Since she had been in a bad mood recently, she drank some wine. It was raining on the way home and she was soaked in water. , when I got home, I saw my husband lying on the bed playing with his mobile phone, and my parents-in-law Sitting on the sofa in the living room and watching TV, Li Jing couldn't hold herself any longer at this moment. She immediately rushed to Hu Gang and shouted angrily: Divorce, I want to divorce you. I can't do anything for a day like this. If things go on like this, they are obviously a couple but they don't trust each other, so it would be better to separate as soon as possible.

Hu Gang looked at his out-of-control wife in front of him. He did not argue with her. He just turned around and silently took out his salary card from the drawer and handed it to Li Jing. Seeing Hu Gang's actions, Li Jing was a little confused. Later, Li Jing just know it turned out to be After that conversation, my mother-in-law had a conversation with Hu Gang. She advised Hu Gang that even if he wanted to save money and move to a bigger house early, he could still hand over his salary card to Li Jing for safekeeping. What should he do at home? The AA system makes Li Jing feel uncomfortable. How can he live such a life for a long time?

And the old couple also have their own plans. They plan to go back to their hometown in a few days. They plan to find a master worker to repaint the house in their hometown so that they can move back and live there. They don’t want to be here either. Elderly care is even more unwilling to get involved in the affairs of the young couple. Hu Gang also expressed his attitude to Li Jing very frankly: From today on, my salary card will be handed over to you. The card is all the money I saved and I have not wasted a penny. , in addition to daily living expenses, if you don’t believe it, you can check it out.

Sure enough, as Hu Gang said, his salary card already had a balance of over 100,000. A few days later, his parents-in-law packed their things and returned to their hometown, and workers were hired to renovate the house! Fortunately, this time with the efforts of his parents-in-law, Hu Gang made a change. Li Jing finally felt relieved when she saw Hu Gang's change. From then on, the two of them lived a happy married life. There is no AA system anymore.

Finally, I would like to express my opinion. It is said that a husband and wife are of the same mind, and they are more powerful than gold! Husbands and wives should trust each other and be honest. They should talk about anything and then discuss and communicate with each other. Especially the idea of ​​​​making money individually and spending it individually, it is even more important to discuss it first before making a decision! Friends, can you accept living an AA life after getting married? Everyone is welcome to express your thoughts in the comment area.