Don't always complain that women have a weak heart. That's because you don't have the heart to understand women, and you don't have the patience to continue to understand them, so you can come to such a superficial understanding.
No matter what age women are, they actually long for love, warmth, and attention and care. Only when they live in love and vision can women be relaxed and comfortable.
Middle-aged women have certain life experiences and are relatively rational when it comes to relationships. They will not be easily deceived by sweet words. They have also seen clearly that some people can only talk but not do anything.
She no longer fantasizes about so many romantic plots, but longs for down-to-earth happiness and warmth. In this vast world, if there is a shoulder that belongs to herself, only belongs to herself, cuddling with each other is already a kind of happiness.
When pursuing a middle-aged woman, it is not enough to simply talk. You must continue to show your sincerity with actions and add some skills to impress her.
If you want to impress a middle-aged woman, it is enough to be hot and cold.
actively focuses on
observers influencing the observed.
If you want to get close to her heart, you must observe her carefully and remember her preferences, what she likes, what she doesn't like, and what she is thinking about.
If you confess your love rashly, you will be easily frustrated. After all, middle-aged women have had certain emotional experiences and have a certain degree of defensiveness and rejection.
You might as well pay active attention first and understand thoroughly before taking action. You can use her updates, ask friends around her, etc., actively pay attention and understand, create a positive atmosphere, and she will also feel your good impression of her, and It's a warning.
It is always easy for a woman to think that by your positive attention to her, she has already felt your love and realized that you treat her differently from others, which is a good start.
Continue to care
It is not difficult to do one thing, but the difficult thing is to persist in doing one thing.
If you only care about someone for a few days and rush to express your love, it will appear to be insincere. A middle-aged woman will not be touched by you at all and will only think that you are reckless.
When treating middle-aged women, you must not only show enthusiasm, but also show sincerity. You might as well boil a frog in warm water and continue to care.
When she needs it, you are always by her side, helping her without asking for anything, caring about daily life without being too intrusive, being very positive and enthusiastic, but just right, and not clingy, so that she will Feel the sincerity and warmth of your love.
People of any age, all they want is a warm-hearted person, someone who can give them a shoulder.
Middle-aged women seem to be very strong, but in fact they also long for true love in their hearts. Only constant care can break her defenses and make her dependent on you.
Keep your distance at the right time.
If you are too cold, you will easily become indifferent to strangers. If you are too enthusiastic, you will appear too utilitarian and make people feel bored.
When pursuing middle-aged women, don't be blindly enthusiastic and ignore them when appropriate. On the contrary, you will get twice the result with half the effort.
When giving attention and care, you must have a sense of proportion and not be too enthusiastic and strong, otherwise it will appear greasy.
When she develops the habit of relying on you and being cold occasionally, she will focus on you instead and care about what you are doing and what you are doing, which will quickly shorten the distance between you.
has always been actively paying attention and caring. The occasional neglect will make her feel psychologically uncomfortable, but will arouse her desire to understand you, and the story between you will begin.
To stir up a woman's heart, you must pay attention to her emotions. If you can mobilize her emotions, you will get twice the result with half the effort.
Conclusion:
There is a method for everything, and the same is true for emotional management.
If you like someone and confess your love rashly, it will only appear to be insincere, and it will make middle-aged women feel superficial.
Since you want to impress her, you must use patience and love to make her feel your sincerity. You must also use cold skills to sway her heart, which will become easier.
There are means and strategies to pursue, but after being together, it depends on hard work, and you must know how to cherish it.
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