It is understood that extramarital affairs: after a lover cheats on you, you will feel painful and have no love, which is a necessary process.
netizen shared that feeling miserable and hopeless after your lover cheats is a necessary process, unless you no longer love the other person. Believe that time is the medicine that heals everything. If you can't live without the other party, then stay together for the time being. The other party will be busy so that you don't have time to recall the sad scenes. Improve yourself and learn anything you are interested in. As time goes by, when you become stronger, you can rationally choose to divorce or not. When you get divorced, people don't suffer so much. Only now do I understand what Ma Yili does. Don’t make decisions blindly when your children are still young and you love each other. Go to your husband's workplace to ask for living expenses, and tell your boss and colleagues about his cheating on his three children and not raising children, and send it to the family group. People who can't pay for the money can't save face for him.
I am experiencing this too. We have been dragging it out for two years. His relationship with his mistress has faded a lot, but they have never separated. Now I am more rational and ready to choose divorce on the premise of ensuring the interests of myself and my children. If my husband cheats on me, I will not divorce him, we will each live our own lives. I have two children, I still have the money, and I still live in the house. I will not give up my children and everything to anyone else! I can also cheat, who is afraid of whom? Don't cheat with revenge. Being a person is for yourself. Everyone should have a bottom line of character. If he does that, don't do that. Otherwise, it is also a kind of disrespect for yourself and others. Besides, you may not have the ability to accept that complicated state. You will suffer even more internally, so you might as well love yourself. Just be relaxed, simple and happy!
It’s better for women to keep their feelings to themselves. There are a few good men outside of marriage. You can’t be selective about what you eat just because he’s cheating! Use this time to strengthen yourself and educate your children well, and the results will be there in a few years! But in the end he got nothing, his virtue was not worthy of him! Wrong. If you really cheat, your heart will go to someone else. It will be more painful to fall in love with someone you can't love. Looking back, my husband has been cheating on me for 8 years. There are many women who have cheated on me. I have two. My son cannot tear the family apart, so my mother-in-law and I have tried every means to deal with him. It has been 10 months since we returned to our family, and I often feel uncomfortable thinking about the past. When a man has money, he loses his conscience.
Yes, if you are not sad, there is no need to be sad if you don’t love yourself. If you have a strong heart and have financial power, you must let him do things at home! These are just treating the symptoms and leaving the child in his care.
One way is to cultivate the relationship between father and son so that he feels sorry for the child (tiger poison will not eat its children), the other way is to let him know your contribution to the family, and the third way is not to give him time to waste outside. The other person has someone else outside and doesn't care about you at all. Those who don't want a divorce are really asking for trouble! Harm others and yourself! Not worthy of sympathy! The same experience, I was still married for more than 20 years, but in the end I divorced. After more than two years of recuperation, I feel that I am alive, and divorce is still the right decision! Otherwise, I would still be tortured!
Then let me ask you, how can you be sure that you will find another one? His heart and eyes will be all about you. This world is much better than you. Do you have to keep changing until someone else's eyes are all about you? Marriage is just that, raising a family and raising children, without domestic violence, that's pretty much it! Today I heard from my aunt about a relative who has married children and brought up grandchildren. She lives in a temple, eats fast, prays to Buddha, and grows vegetables and melons. I think it’s good for a woman to live like this when she gets old. At least she’ll be in a peaceful mood.
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