I suddenly discovered a phenomenon. Many colleagues and friends around me can easily affect their emotions due to other people's words. Under the control of emotions, their heads cannot think correctly.
Then I think people who are easily influenced by others are generally more sensitive people. Sensitive people have more delicate minds and heavier worries. So, how can we not be so easily affected by others?
Actually! As long as you don't pay attention to other people's news, don't speculate on other people's thoughts, and don't think about things that haven't happened, your unclear and confused life will be very relaxed! I personally like a relatively free life and no one or anything can disturb my thoughts.
It’s really easy to suffer losses if you have a sensitive and please-pleaser personality! You think a lot every day, and sometimes you even feel inferior to others, because you always feel that you are inferior to others, you are afraid that others will not like you, you are afraid of causing trouble for others, you are afraid that others will be unhappy, even if you are already very wronged, but That's really tiring!
You have to be less sensitive to many things and don't be so anxious to make judgments. If you are slower and blunter, you will find that it is really comfortable. We receive too much information every day. If you are too sensitive , then it is really easy to be misled, and the power of dullness will make you more comfortable.
Therefore, we must learn to be insensitive. The power of insensitivity will make us more relaxed and comfortable.
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