Buddha said: After a hundred years of cultivation, you can cross the same boat, and after a thousand years of cultivation, you can sleep together on the same pillow.
means: It takes a hundred years of practice for us to cross the river together in a boat, and it takes a thousand years of practice for us to sleep in the same bed.
fate allows each other to go from strangers to acquaintance, to acquaintance, to love, to marriage, to happily forming their own family, and then to the crystallization of love... and then entering the paradise of happiness.
Everyone is looking for a person who makes people feel at ease in their whole life. Maybe due to many reasons, they met and missed and gave up. I hope that this time when we meet, we will be the most correct choice for each other.
Choose the right partner, the best investment in life!
. Choosing the right partner is the best investment in life.
Having many friends, getting promoted and making a fortune is far less important than having a good partner!
It is said that behind a successful man there must be a good woman; but behind a happy woman there must be a man who loves her and can be relied on.
A virtuous wife and a virtuous husband will bring no harm!
A truly virtuous wife is also full of wisdom. A virtuous wife can help her husband effectively avoid many disasters, thereby maintaining family unity, happiness and harmony.
A friend of mine works in a bank and does credit work. Because he made several illegal loans and could not collect them back, he was suspended from work by his employer, his salary was stopped, and he was professionally charged with debt collection. Moreover, I also borrowed a lot of loan sharks from outside, and the interest compounded more and more.
Later, more and more people came to my home to collect debts. My friend was so frightened that he dared not go home for a long time. My friend’s wife also knew everything about her husband outside.
After my friend’s wife went to my friend’s work, she went to the private creditor to understand the situation one by one.
The money owed by friends to private individuals is due to loan sharking, and some of it is already far higher than the principal, and it is still rising.
After analysis, my friend’s wife decided to sell an extra property and went back to her parents’ home to borrow some money from her brothers.
found a few private debtors and took the initiative to deal with them. Xiao Zhiyi stopped all interest rates and only paid back the principal. He also dragged people to his friend's workplace and negotiated with his friend's leader. Finally, his employer agreed that his friend would collect debts while working.
My friend was able to resume his job and return to a peaceful life. However, several colleagues in the bank who were in a similar situation to my friend were expelled from their workplaces, lost their jobs, and are now living outside their homes to avoid debts.
I am the wife of a friend who saved his husband and won everyone's respect.
Partners who fly apart when disaster strikes are not true love partners!
2. When the family is harmonious, everything prospers.
When the family is harmonious, everything prospers. When the family fails, everything prospers!
I have discovered a strange phenomenon. After a divorce, whether it is a man or a woman, it is only a very rare case that those who have a good life after re-establishing a family will generally have a bad life, or they will divorce again.
After divorce, those who are single and no longer looking for a job are even more lonely and living a miserable life. Because they live an irregular life and spend money without a plan, their wealth also plummets.
There is an old saying: Domestic chickens are flying around, pheasants are not flying around. Regardless of men or women, moral character is so important.
A real man is caring, capable, responsible, responsible, not sentimental, has personality, and is considerate; a good woman is not a flower vase, but gentle and virtuous, emotionally dedicated, respecting the elderly and taking care of the family.
A truly right partner will never break up when we quarrel, never run away after a fight, and even the broken bones are connected to the tendons.
The downfall of a family lies in choosing the wrong partner!
Thanks to a good partner for giving us a happy home
Home is a haven in life, home is a harbor of happiness, home is the home of the soul, and home is the sustenance of emotions.
Home is a clear spring that nourishes our hearts; home is a bright light that guides you and me; home is a small boat that carries you and me through the wind and waves.
The happiness of a family is not the material things on display, but an atmosphere of family affection, a sense of solidity, and a kind of confidence. It can be said to be a kind of strength, a powerful and fearless force.
A good partner is a kind of strength, a powerful force. The strength that women need is also the strength that men need.
Family is hope, and children are our hope, the driving force for our survival, the value of our existence, and the continuation of our lives.
The happiness of a family lies in choosing the right partner!
Conclusion:
"Zeng Guang Xian Wen" said: One day a husband and wife, a hundred generations of marriage. That is what we people often say: a couple can be kind to each other for a hundred days, and a couple can be as deep as the ocean for a hundred days.
Each of us should cherish the person beside us, because that is the person who comes into our life and the person who accompanies us to the end of life.
In the course of hundreds of millions of years of history, we have met in this life and this life, and have known each other at that time and that moment among tens of thousands of sentient beings.
What a precious encounter this is, what a precious partner. Each of us should be grateful and cherish the partner who gave us a home, and we should be grateful that we have chosen the right partner.
Choose the right partner, the best investment in life!
2022.8.17
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