It is understood that extramarital affairs: the third party in love is the one who is not loved, which is sad. Netizen
shared that the unloved person is the third party in love. Marriage is not the standard or caliper of love. Love is uncontrollable. Sometimes the mind feels big, but the body and heart feel sinking. Love comes and cherishes, love leaves and never stays, that’s all! You have no one else with these three views. If marriage is not the standard, why do you still need marriage? Those who are really seeking love are non-marriage-minded. In fact, it is recommended that people with your three views should not get married, so as not to harm others.
A confidante can only be found but cannot be sought. When you meet one, accept it calmly and face it calmly. Don’t let yourself come to this world in vain. Of the 10 couples now, at least 8 are living together with almost no feelings. How many of them are for the sake of their children? The generation of parents who barely maintain their status as husband and wife have almost no feelings after fighting all their lives and maintain the status quo. Hey, just don’t embarrass yourself and let nature take its course. What is supposed to come will always come. Extramarital affairs are the most common. There is basically no affection for the other half of the marriage and there is no harmony. Why is the divorce rate in society so high now? It is really a painful life for two unsuitable people to be together, but it is almost impossible to meet the one you like. Why do you have extramarital affairs? A confidante is not living together. The beauty comes from distance. When you become a couple, you will quarrel. , so keeping distance is the eternity of love. In fact, it is the selfishness and greed of human nature that cause trouble. We do not cherish what we get and regret it when we lose it. Human beings regard themselves as advanced animals and lack the ability to do the things of lower animals. This mountain looks high and that mountain is still high. The so-called vision is different. If you feel different, you will be ready to take action. In the end, it will be exhausted and return to the original, and then it will cycle again. This is human nature. Human nature is good, but as it evolves, the so-called advanced is just the most primitive desire and impulse.
He didn’t give me the courage to live a stable life, and I didn’t have the courage to throw everything away and keep the feelings that cost me half my life, just hide them in my heart. Whoever has experienced it will know it. People who have not experienced it will never be able to empathize with it. Discuss love alone, not sex. If it is an extramarital affair that develops from good friends, it is best not to have a relationship. Otherwise, we won’t be able to get along with each other in the future, and we won’t be able to continue. It's better to keep this feeling in your heart and interact as a friend, which will last longer. The cognition when you are young is definitely different from what it is ten years or decades later. Everyone has more experience and more abilities, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to have someone who matches you. I couldn't have the little beauty in the past, but now I can finally use my own strength to protect the person I want. That is a sincere feeling and should be blessed! Women don't always have to put themselves in a role of being chosen or abandoned. I'm afraid only she knows how painful it is to be around a man who doesn't love her. Why can't she also become a cinnabar mole in another person's heart?
This is not a question of love or not, but a question of morality and immorality. Because marriage is the tomb of love, it is easy for love to appear outside marriage. Whether it is true love cannot be based on marriage. Is it not true love if you only fall in love without getting married? Does it mean true love if you are married but not divorced? True love is hard to find in this life, cherish it when you find it. I don't know what true love is! I chatted with a 41-year-old woman who has a family, drives a BMW car, and runs her own business. We were together for 8 months, and now we are completely separated, which is extremely painful! We have had some quarrels and quarrels during the eight months we have been together, and now she is really afraid of me, and I don’t know why! We were separated and still met, but I couldn't bear it, so I was willing to come to her city, but she no longer felt sorry for me, even if I didn't eat or drink water. She said that when she was good in the past, she would feel sorry for me if I didn't eat, but now she doesn't. Got it. I could wait for her all day and all night. She said this made her helpless and scared! I don't want to let go, and I don't want to destroy her family, but she really says she has no feelings for me anymore. We used to be very harmonious together, but I don’t know why she is treating me like this now. I am in pain!
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