used to think that domestic violence was far away from us. However, after seeing this data, we realized that domestic violence is all around us.
According to statistics from the All-China Women's Federation: 24.7% of families in my country have domestic violence, and on average, a woman suffers domestic violence every 7.4 seconds. Every year, 157,000 women choose to commit suicide, 60% of which are caused by domestic violence.
In recent years, the term domestic violence has been frequently discussed in society. People often say that there are only zero or countless domestic violence cases. Therefore, if you suffer from domestic violence, you must take up legal weapons to protect yourself.
So, how to identify whether the partner in your life is prone to domestic violence? Generally speaking, people with these characteristics must stay away as soon as possible.
1. People with different appearance and appearance
Such people, in the eyes of outsiders, they behave like gentlemen, making people feel like perfect men with no shortcomings.
However, after getting along with him for a long time, I discovered that they had been gnashing their teeth behind their backs, silently accumulating grievances that would be out of control once they broke out. After
returned home, he became a hands-off shopkeeper, yelling at his family, and smashing tables and benches if he didn't like it.
2. Sensitive and suspicious people
always maintain a state of vigilance when getting along. The slightest disturbance is as nervous as experiencing life and death, and he will always be wary of all the opposite sex around his partner. They will check out every message from their other half. As long as it doesn't suit their liking, they will suspect that the other person doesn't love them anymore, or even that they have betrayed them.
3. People who are extremely controlling
When you are with such people, you will feel that you are being monitored 24 hours a day. What time did you leave the company in the afternoon, what time did you go to the coffee shop, what time did you take the subway home... ...
goes even further by restricting the other half’s travel time and location, and even posting to Moments will be stopped or will require his consent before posting. Even if you go out to eat with people close to you, they will call you constantly to ask about your situation. If you don't reply to the message, you will immediately fall out.
4. People with vicious words
"Will you agree to be my girlfriend? If you don't agree to it, then there is no point in living for me." If someone confesses to you like this, don't hesitate and stay away immediately. People like
usually have extreme ideas. If you are with such people, then when you quarrel, these people will usually threaten you with words: "If you have the ability, just leave. If you leave, I won't be able to find you." It will not be easy for your family if it comes to you.”
also habitually speaks dirty words. Whether it is towards oneself or others, they often say vicious words.
5. People with self-mutilation tendencies
This type of people are very scary, often addicted to alcohol, and have strong and extreme behaviors after drinking. When one is in a bad mood, he will vent his anger through self-mutilation. If the other half proposes to break up, they will often resort to self-mutilation to retain them. People like
are very emotionally unstable. If you stay with such people in the long run, they will inevitably be hurt. Therefore, if you are around such people or people with similar behaviors, you must stay away as soon as possible.
6. Extremely selfish people
Such people often do not learn how to think from someone else's perspective . If the other person is not going well and wants to talk, just say directly: "Why do you have so many problems? Others are fine, but you are the only one who has many problems."
What they think and actually do is self-centered. What they want must be met immediately. If the other half does not meet their needs in time, they will suffer severe "punishment".
Domestic violence is the same as cheating. As long as there is a first time, there will be countless times. But we only have one life, and we can’t afford to try, so stay away from domestic violence and protect yourself.
When you meet the above types of people, you must give up decisively and don't be reluctant to end it. Temporary tolerance cannot be exchanged for gentle treatment, and what you can get will only get worse.
If you suffer from domestic violence, you must be brave enough to take the correct approach to protect yourself.
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