A child follows his grandmother, just like a child without a mother.
A child without a mother is very pitiful. I can still think of a boy without a mother when he was in the first grade of elementary school. He was still wearing open-crotch pants and his clothes were dirty. There is no mother who does laundry and cooking at home, and no one loves the child.
Grandma is very old. Once she dies, the child will be left unattended and will continue to go to her stepfather's house.
Children with stepfathers are also very poor. After a woman divorces, the second marriage is usually the worse the marriage, and the conditions of the stepfather are generally poorer and not as good as the ex-husband's family. Most people's stepfather's family is not wealthy, and the family's food and clothing are not enough.
Stepfathers are generally the closest to their own children, let their children eat delicious food first, and let their children wear good-looking clothes first. Children who are not biological are basically discriminated against, doing the heaviest work and eating the worst. If you don't do well, you'll be beaten.
This kind of fatherless child, because he does not have the survival value provided by his father, is basically dependent on others, cannot experience the warmth of the family at all, and is always hungry for love.
2 If a person loses his wife in middle age, it is very unfortunate.
Although some people say "promote a career, get rich and kill your wife", this is for the rich. Rich people are very attractive, and if their wives die, they can change their wives at will.
In fact,If ordinary people lose their wives in middle age, their lives will immediately enter into difficulties.
Because no one cooks, no one does housework, a family immediately disperses.
Middle-aged men still need to spend money to marry a wife, and at this time, their sons may also need to marry, and both men need to marry, so the money is simply not enough.
If my son doesn't earn much money and there are two bachelors in a family, it's really worrying.
3 It is very unfortunate for a person to lose a child in old age.
Because the white-haired man sends the black-haired man, the pain is beyond words.
People are getting old, and they need their children to earn money to support them, but the children pass away. How bitter.
Every misfortune makes three generations experience the hardships and hardships of life.
A person can only avoid these misfortunes by having more children when he is young. A child, the risk is very high.
In a person's life, if all three things happen, the unfortunate things happen to the teenagers, middle-aged and old people, it is the most unfortunate life.
In order to reduce the pain of these things, people only have to work hard to earn money and provide more survival value for their families, so that when the family encounters misfortune,Money to protect against risk.
In the case of more money, some of the suffering in life can be reduced.
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