| Author: glutinous rice balls
I am Uncle Qiuye’s little assistant glutinous rice balls. I thought I would never meet someone more inspirational than the uncle in my life. Until I met the protagonist of today’s article, Teacher Li Zhide.
Like the uncle, Li Zhide also suffered physical changes when he was young because of his illness.
Uncle is because of penicillin , the side effects caused hearing loss, so he speaks with big tongue;
is caused by improper treatment of his limbs at the age of 5. , Walking is very strenuous, often need a wheelchair to transport, can't speak clearly.
But you must never have imagined that this is such a person, and his current job is actually a professional lecturer.
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I know Mr. Zhide. During the 2020 pandemic, our Autumn Leaf team launched an activity #和秋叶与学# to encourage everyone to tell their own story. You can write stories, write articles, and make videos.
In these stories, I accidentally saw the video of Teacher Zhide.
The first reaction was to be scared. Why is this person talking so strange? Almost word by word pops out of his mouth.
The second reaction is surprise. Why does this person talk like this and dare to make a video?
Driven by curiosity, I watched all the videos on his account, and I took the initiative to add it to his friends, which is so inspirational.
I have forgotten the specific content of the first communication, but I remember clearly, he said that in the essay competition of the Akiba’s family, must take the first place. One.
This gave me a very big impact. It seems that I have never been so confident to do one thing best.
On the contrary, I always set limits for myself. This is not good, and that is not good. In many cases, I will even comfort myself. Now the level is not bad, and it is better than many people.
Teacher Zhide seems to be more difficult than ordinary people in all aspects, but he is more confident than ordinary people to do better.
writing,Live broadcast, record videos, learn speeches, be a lecturer, take competitions, and each item. Teacher Zhide will not only do it, but also do his best to do his best.
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After the accident happened at the age of 5, the family members are ready to take care of him.
Unlike many people with physical defects, Teacher Zhide did not abandon himself because of a sudden illness.
On the contrary, after accepting the facts, he knows that only learning can change his destiny.
The 12-year-old teacher Zhide communicated with his family seriously for the first time and wanted to go to school. The family members are also very supportive. Every day he takes him to school by pushing a wheelchair.
Originally, the family felt that Mr. Zhide wanted to go to school, but they just kept trying. After all, there were very few children who really wanted to go to school. Unexpectedly, Mr. Zhide not only persevered in a difficult environment, but also Get the top three grades in the class.
After studying hard, the 20-year-old teacher Zhide successfully entered the high school.
The high school is very far away from home. Teacher Zhide’s father uses a bicycle to drive him to school every day. The rainy day in winter is the day they fear the most. The rain is mixed with mud and a little bit of soaking. Their clothes are so cold.
when I got to school, I was covered in mud,It was too cold to speak.
The distance from the first floor to the fourth floor every day is also their nightmare. Others can walk up the stairs in a few minutes, but they have to work hard to complete it in an hour or two.
But even so, Teacher Zhide is still very content, because there is a goal that he can work hard for, which is especially precious to him.
But what he never expected was that he was dropped out of school.
Because of his special physical condition, the principal at the time was very worried. If something happened to him in the school, the school could not be responsible. So he called Zhide's father and asked him to either sign a waiver or drop out of school.
Teacher Zhide said that it was the first time he saw his father cry.
It was so difficult before, so hard on the road, so tired to carry him upstairs, his father didn't cry, but at that time his father was crying.
Thinking of others' 20 years old, they have already left home to go to college, so there is no need to worry about family members. My own 20 years old, but it makes my dad run around for him to go to high school every day. Teacher Zhide feels very uncomfortable, so he just goes. Gritting his teeth, he said word by word: Dad~I~no~read~, I~we~home~
That's it,Teacher Zhide left the school.
I suddenly lost the goal that I could work hard for, and life seemed to be no more rushing. This made Teacher Zhide a big blow, and he was at a loss for a while.
Mr. Zhide, who had been bored at home for a long time, accidentally saw the book " life is not limited" given to him by his mother and friend when he was a child, and saw the author of the cover of this book, Lectra ·Hu Zhe-the world-renowned orator without limbs!
So an idea emerged, Why don’t I be a speaker who inspires others like Lectra Huzhe?
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I want to become a new enthusiasm for the teacher of and Huzhe has rekindled the enthusiasm for the life of the speaker.
However, it is difficult for ordinary people to make a good speech, and it is even more difficult for Zhide teacher to go to the sky.
Because as a speaker needs to have two basic abilities,Speaking and standing firm are things that Teacher Zhide doesn't have.
Before that, because he couldn't control the facial muscles, almost no one understood what Zhide said.
So he asked his mother to buy him a Xinhua dictionary and set a goal for himself to read from the first word to the last word every day, repeating it at least 5 times a day.
During this process, he often read about cramps in his mouth and hoarseness in his throat, but he did not complete the goal and never stopped.
has been practicing and repeating this way for half a year. Teacher Zhide can only make a sound that everyone can barely understand, so everyone listens to him as he bounces out word by word, and I don’t know what to pay behind. What a price.
Overcoming the speaking barrier, there are standing problems waiting for him.
When Mr. Zhide first started to practice walking, he couldn't stand firmly even if he was assisted by someone.
In order to let himself learn to stand, he simply shut himself in the room and asked his father to buy a sponge cushion, spread it on the floor, brought two chairs, and when he fell, he stood up and fell. I got up and stood up again, fell down and got up again...
During that time,He often saw his mother wiping tears secretly.
In this way, I keep exercising for 6 hours a day. After a year and a half, teacher Zhide can barely stand on his own.
But what's the use of working harder?
He has only exercised two basic skills that normal people have, and are too common.
Who would want to find someone with a physical disability to speak?
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No audience, just be your own audience.
After practicing the basic skills of standing and talking, Zhide teacher tried to find a speaking organization to submit a resume, while practicing in front of the mirror.
pushed his wheelchair to submit resumes one by one every day, and was rejected again and again. Many people expressed sympathy and moved for his experience, but no company dared to hire a person with a physical disability.
Although Zhide has tried his best to behave normally, he stood up hard and spoke hard.
After hitting again and again, Mr. Zhide accidentally saw the uncle on the Internet, knowing that the uncle had also changed from a non-standard mandarin person to a live broadcast celebrity, so he started to learn video shooting and Clip.
The average person may take a video that can be completed in a few minutes. He often takes a few hours and shoots dozens of times over and over again. An ordinary person may be able to edit a small video in half an hour, but he needs half a day or even a day to edit by himself.
But this time seems to have finally chosen the right way, because he insisted on updating short videos, and was discovered by a speech organization. Although the salary was not high, he finally found a job that could support himself.
What's more surprising is that the story of Teacher Zhide touched a lively and lovely girl. They walked together from online to offline.
The appearance of this girl also shines a light into the life of Zhide.
Moreover, under the care of the girls, Mr. Zhide has become more and more courageous to break through himself. Whether walking or talking, he has made great breakthroughs. Up to now, he has been able to travel offline independently. Lecture.
You see, this is a group photo of Mr. Li Zhide and his girlfriend in the uncle’s off-line get out of class.
as long as you don’t give up on yourself,No one can give up on you!
The current teacher Zhide is an inspirational lecturer for an organization. He has his own video account and has worked hard to live like ordinary people, with a job that he likes, and people he likes. , I have to work overtime occasionally, and occasionally complain.
The people around him no longer give him special treatment because of his special body, and no longer feel that he can't do something because of his special body.
I asked Mr. Zhide if he felt that his destiny was unfair and caused him to experience so many ups and downs.
Teacher Zhide said: There is still a long way to go. I will try to live as an ordinary person first.
Yes, it’s fine to live hard to be an ordinary person. The most terrifying thing about people is that they have unreasonable expectations of themselves, can recognize reality, and strive to move forward. People who are worthy of applause.
Uncle Akiba wrote at the end
Zhide worked very hard. I knew his story early. Like Zhide, even if I memorize the dictionary to the point of mystery, I would still be laughed at. But in comparison, my condition is terribly good, but my hearing is a little worse.
young people in small towns like ours,Naturally know that knowledge is the window to change destiny.
We also know that because of inherent shortcomings, we must work harder to stand on the same starting line as ordinary people.
We know that there are many opportunities to actively exclude us, whether it is a speech that is very difficult to talk and express, or a job that does not even need to talk.
But fortunately, Zhide and I have bravely broken through ourselves, and both are willing to be the ones who are willing to climb up with a ladder, and even build their own ladders for themselves.
We cannot change our starting point. What we can do is to bury our heads and move forward, so that we can run to the end just like others.
Although we ran a little slower, we also saw hope and happiness in our lives.
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