The so-called flattery, as the noun means "to please others with a humble attitude". If a person is flattering in life, he loses his authenticity and degrades his character, which a gentleman can't do.
However, the world is difficult, life is not easy, and the workplace is dangerous. Because of the human nature that likes flattery, because of the existence of nepotism, for personal gain, sometimes sacrifice a little dignity, and occasionally flattering is not harmful.
Li Bai, whose heart is taller than the sky, also wrote erotic poems praising beautiful women in a charming manner. The three poems " Qingping Tune" won Tang Xuanzong and two span_26spanspan Yang Guifei Kouzi's favor.
The great poet Du Fu In the early years of "Beijing drifting", in Chang'an, he lived a humiliating life of "the gate of the rich in the North and the dust of the fat horse". It is not to flatter the rich and powerful, to ask others to reward some "leftovers".
No way, Shixian, I also want to find a platform to display his ambitions. The poet also has to support his family.
Let alone the little common people,In order to live humble, sometimes in front of the boss, showing some flattery, saying a few insincere compliments, you can't bear to call it a "little man".
But there is a "way" in everything, even if there is a line of flattery, even if there is a flat line Although slavery, don't harm others.
Wu Zetian Although killing people is like numbness, she is very humane to animals and prohibits killing.
Right Supplement Zhang De was pleased with his precious son, secretly killed a sheep, and invited his colleagues to get together. My colleagues tacitly feasted.
Du Su who came to the party secretly hid a piece of meat. Afterwards, he gave a short report to Wu Zetian.
At the court meeting, Wu Zetian said to Zhang De: "I heard that you got a boy, congratulations." Zhang De bowed and thanked him. Then, Wu Zetian suddenly asked Zhang De: Where does the mutton come from? Zhang De and the officials were scared, but Du Su was the only one who was delighted.
Fortunately, Wu Zetian is in a good mood at the moment, otherwise, Zhang De may fall to his head.
Wu Zetian showed Du Su's whistleblower and said lightly: You should make a choice when you entertain guests in the future, and don't invite people indiscriminately. "
For a while, the courtier glared at Du Su and "had a sigh of relief."
Just finished eating other people's mutton, and told them backhand. It didn't feel embarrassing at all. In order to flatter his boss and hurt his colleagues, This flattery is especially despicable, and everyone can get it and kill it.
In order to be promoted first,In order to get a piece of the pie from the leader, you can do everything you can to observe your words, look and feel, and greet you. Even if you show all kinds of disgusting faces, "being like a woman and using money for private purposes", it has nothing to do with others.
leader posted a mediocre point of view in the WeChat group, you can praise it and say it is novel, original, ingenious, and inspiring.
The leader wrote a crooked poem. You can praise him for his , Byron , Shelley’s character, and the talents of Li Bai and Du Fu.
When you see the wife of the leader, you can compliment her on being young, beautiful, and beautiful, even though she is old and yellow, and looks big and thick.
In public, you can praise the leader for his ability and political integrity, and his two-sleeved breeze, even though he is a wine bag and only knows about corruption.
These behaviors, although a bit sordid, as long as you have a thick skin and don't feel awkward, it is not an exaggeration.
You just come out from the leader, you just come out from the leader, you just come out with a cold face, , icy, right now, . The demeanor of people hurts colleagues' souls.
A colleague posted an article in a WeChat group that exposes corruption and criticizes injustice. You immediately say: Do not post such negative-energy articles indiscriminately in the future. When you see the author, you glared at him again, even mockingly, pointing at Sang Huai.
A group of friends complained and scolded the leader at the wine table. In order to show your loyalty, you immediately ran to the leader to inform you, and at the same time, accompanied by an expression of indignation and disdain.
For the sake of superiority, for a little profit, you violate your colleagues and betray your conscience. This loses the "bottom line" of flattery, and also loses the last point of being a person. The gain is not worth the loss!
calmly profited from flattery without hurting others, not only a bitch, but also set up a memorial arch, in front of the boss is a filial grandson who bows to the ears, and a respectable gentleman in front of the common people. This is the best in flattery.
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