text/Xia Mo
01, Volume Beginner
Love is like opening a blind box. No one knows what kind of people you will meet or what kind of stories you will experience.
On the road of life, if you can find someone who truly loves you, even if you can't see what the future looks like, you can be sure that you will gain more happiness and happiness.
Women always like to worry about gains and losses in love, and don’t know if men have given their sincerity.
In fact, all love is "visible" and can be obtained by "feeling".
Su Qin said: "Real love is to give each other something special. Not everyone has the ability to give you the best, but at least you can use something unique to prove the value in each other's hearts."
When a man truly loves a woman, he always has some special requirements to maintain love and manage love.
A man who truly loves you will have "three nos". Have you met you?
02. After a quarrel, you are not allowed to break up
. Men who give their sincere hearts hope that they will be each other for the rest of their lives. I hope that after encountering conflicts, we can communicate and solve problems calmly, and women are not allowed to break up after a quarrel.
A man’s request for women to never say “breakup” is a sign of his extreme fear of losing.
Because women ask for "breakup" too many times, which will not only destroy the development of love, but also make men gradually lose confidence in love.
When a man truly loves a woman, he will want to hold her firmly in his arms and hold her in his palm.
Even if there is a quarrel or conflict between two people, he thinks that it can be resolved in consultation. Don’t want to end each other’s relationship at any time, which will hurt the man.
Woman, a person who truly loves you, is most afraid of losing. Therefore, he will accept your willfulness, small temper, and even unreasonable trouble, but he cannot accept your departure.
There is room for negotiation for anything, but you can leave and just say "break up".
Perhaps, in his mind, he had already built a plan to spend his life with a woman. If a woman leaves, her heart will be lost half. Men cannot bear this kind of pain.
If she is gone, every day and every second of the remaining days will become torture.
03. Don’t do things that hurt yourself at any time
Love is a kind of cherishment and a kind of protection.
When a man loves a woman deeply, he will not allow her to make choices that hurt him because of anything.
The Little Orchid in " The Legend of the Blueberry " is the incarnation of the goddess Xilan. She can save all things in the world and protect the people. When Dongfang Qingcang was seriously injured and dying, Xiao Lanhua cut her wrist and wanted to get blood to save him.
When Dongfang Qingcang woke up, he was very angry and told Xiao Lanhua that he would not use methods that hurt him to save people in the future, even if he did not do it.
He ignored his safety and thought about whether the little orchid would hurt, and he didn't want to see any scars on her body.
True love someone, even if you put in a thousand times the effort, you want to protect her and take good care of her.
Because of deep love, I will be very nervous about my beloved. As long as she sees her body hurt or is sick and uncomfortable, she will feel very worried. I want to relieve her pain and bear all this for the other party.
can't stand her crying because of the pain, and she is even more unwilling to bear the suffering and hurt herself at will. He hopes that no matter whether he is by her or not, he hopes that she can cherish her health and protect herself.
04. Do not be too close to other opposite sexes. Keeping a distance from
Love will make a man domineering and sensitive. He wanted to stay with her for the rest of his life, and was sensitively afraid of losing her at any time.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "No matter what a woman looks like, she only wants two things, a lot of love and a lot of security."
In fact, men also need a sense of security.
Many times, a man who gives sincere will have a strong possessive desire, but he does not want to give women too much sense of restraint. When you see a woman being too close to other opposite sexes, you will feel depressed if you are jealous and angry alone.
Loyalty to love is the basic requirement of trust.
Men don’t like their beloved women who are too close to other opposite sexes, and hope that they can maintain a sense of proportion.
He will remind women not to get too close to other opposite sexes. He hopes that the world of two people will not be disturbed by others, cherish this relationship and be loyal to each other.
, even men will use coquettish behavior to make demands for women to be "loyal to love". I hope she can keep a distance from the opposite sex to ask for a sense of security.
A man is jealous and nervous about a beloved woman is a manifestation of deep love.
05. Summary of
Love will make a man become domineering, cautious, and full of expectations for the future.
Sanmao said: "If you like someone, you can't hide it. Even if you cover your mouth, you will still run out of your eyes."
Love will make men have many different requirements for women and will spend the time "control" her. seems to be a kind of restraint, but in fact he treats her as a part of himself.
A man loves someone very much from the bottom of his heart, so he will consider everything for her, hoping to have a "sense of exclusiveness". And, I will keep her in my heart, hoping that she will never leave and stay in a man's life.
The reason why men make some demands on women is actually because they hope to gain more love and a sense of security.
When two people go in two directions, feel happiness and sweetness between each other, love will run smoothly.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
