Don't take your work too seriously,
take yourself too lightly.
is not talking about chicken soup, but my recent observation. I chatted with several friends about their current work status. Almost all of them (yes) are trapped in the pain of work, busy and overwhelmed. A sister from a large factory said that she was only one step away from depression. She wished that it would be her turn to be laid off and could escape from work with peace of mind.
This state is extremely abnormal. I have also fallen into such a mood, and then I gradually thought about it: too high Evaluate the importance of your work to yourself.
I just heard a new program about the workplace called "French Fries Pier" on Little Universe a few days ago. The topics discussed by the host are very resonant, and I recommend everyone to listen to it.
Don’t give too much meaning to work.
The purpose of work is nothing more than two: making money or pursuing ideals. Many people think about making money while implying that they must do valuable things, which will end up being very painful.
If you are here for money, work hard to improve performance. Don't always think about how bad this business is and it is meaningless. If you are here for realizing self-worth, then it is best not to talk about money. It is unrealistic to want both.
Career cannot define a person.
Many people will have the illusion of being superior or inferior to others because of their occupation. In fact, it only increases their worries. I used to think that the status of employees in large factories is very noble (I have just worked for a year or two), but now in fact It’s nothing. Whether a large factory or a small factory is essentially hiring workers, there is no difference.
If you are a fresh graduate, it is recommended not to blindly pursue the halo of a large company. Sometimes it is an illusion and a burden.
Life is not a track, it is a wilderness.
As mentioned in "The Courage to Be Disliked", everyone has their own issues. We are all restricted by the same social success template - everyone is pursuing higher education, entering a big company, and living in a big house. This standard answer will make you unconsciously compare yourself with others and forget what you really want. What.
If everyone's goal is to become the so-called "middle class", then life will be too boring. Most people in the workplace cannot think clearly about their own issues, so they blindly dive into other people's issues, which is both crowded and painful.
When you think clearly about what you want, you will naturally have a better sense of direction. If you don’t think clearly, you don’t have to immerse yourself in the pain of work.
After all, Yang Tianzhen and both said that he should be a "scumbag in the workplace." Don't take your work too seriously and yourself too lightly. Work is only part of your life, not all of it.
#depression #work#emo # Those things in the workplace
