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＜＜小夏＞
He Xingxun accompanied his sister to the wedding. He sat next to her and chatted with her. He still couldn't help but ask, sister, how can you marry into their family? What do you want from them?
He Xingfu smiled, thinking that she was not Snow White, and did not expect to marry a prince charming.
As for the picture? I just want your brother-in-law to be honest, kind, and nice to her.
He Xingxun felt that he disagreed. It was good to be honest, but it would not work if it was too honest.
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＜＜小夏＞＞
He Xingfu said this because he felt that his own conditions were not good, so he did not expect to marry someone with better conditions.
After all, my own conditions are basically there. It is impossible to belittle oneself and marry someone with particularly good conditions.
Since they can't marry someone with better conditions, then this person's character becomes what they value.
For example, if this person is good to her and good to her, then her life after marriage will be easier.
But, is this really the case?
I found that the people around me, whether they are relatives, friends, or colleagues, in fact, when facing my significant other, they only want to be good to them and treat her well, and they are honest and honest.
But once they got married, they discovered that the nature of the matter involved character, and they discovered earth-shaking changes.
For example, if parents make the decision and interfere in the couple's affairs, the man will remain silent. Not only will he not help his wife, he will also feel that his wife does not understand his mother.
For example, if you have no sense of responsibility for your family, you think that you are already under a lot of pressure at work and cannot make enough money, so you just become a shopkeeper.
For example, he dislikes his wife and thinks that she has not fulfilled her duty as a good wife and mother, and has not even fulfilled her obligation to have children.
I saw the other half of these people before marriage. They were good people and good to their wives, but they all changed after marriage.
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＜＜小夏＞＞
Wang Qinglai seems to be an honest and kind person, so he is happy.
When the wedding begins, he will give her food in advance, fearing that she will be hungry.
stopped her during the toast and asked her to take a break and drink some water while she dealt with it first, so that she could drink less when the time came.
He Xingfu beat the person, and he asked her to go back to her parents' house to hide and bear the responsibility for her own mistakes.
There is no doubt that he cares about his wife and is considerate of his wife.
But as He Xingxun said, it won’t work if you go too far.
When Wan Chuanjia was drinking with him, he used other methods to say that he was a coward and was not worthy of marrying such a beautiful wife as He Xingfu.
Wang Qinglai was obviously unhappy, but he still did not dare to offend the other party because he was the son of the secretary and he was weak and could not defeat him.
Including obviously not being able to drink much alcohol, but still having the courage to drink it.
Because he is the son of the secretary, he dare not refuse his request.
As for He Xingfu hitting someone, he had never considered the right and wrong of this matter.
just felt that his wife He Xingfu had caused trouble, and she should apologize with him.
If he really refused to let go and caused trouble for He Xingfu, he would ask his wife to go back to her parents' house to hide, and he would take the initiative to settle the matter for her.
The way to deal with it is that he keeps apologizing to others, hoping that they will forgive his wife and their whole family.
As for the wife's request for Wan Chuanjia to apologize, she believed that she had bullied her sister and deserved an apology.
Wang Qinglai felt that she had already beaten someone else, which was regarded as a bad breath, and she should not expect to apologize.
After all, the Wang family is a small family, and they neither dare nor want to offend the Wan family.
even blamed his wife for the first time. He had obviously apologized to Secretary Wan and his son. Secretary Wan and his son had also forgiven him, so the matter was over.
But she also wanted Wan Chuanjia to apologize and insisted that Secretary Wan give her an explanation, which made the matter complicated.
This is what He Xuxun said. It is really Wang Qinglai who is too honest.
When something happens, they just keep their heads down and don't dare to speak out. They just apologize to the other person blindly, for fear of offending others and leaving no room for their own survival.
Because of this overly honest reaction, when his wife found out that Secretary Wan was not willing to let his son apologize or admit his son's fault, He Xingfu felt sad and blamed himself, thinking that he had not asked for anything on behalf of his sister. to an explanation.
Wang Qinglai, who was originally considerate of his wife's feelings and emotions, pretended to be deaf and mute at this time and ignored her.
I just feel that my wife has offended everyone in Wanjiazhuang. How will their family live in Wanjiazhuang in the future?
He Xingfu said angrily, "It's time to eat and drink, but I don't believe he can still eat me."
experienced such a thing, and I found that for the first time there were gaps and dissatisfaction in their marriage.
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＜＜小热＞＞
In marriage, is it really important to be honest and honest, a good person, and good to your wife?
In fact, if you are lucky, you have already given the standard answer. Being honest and being kind to your wife is just the basis for getting along with others.
Falling in love, or even getting married, is a test of how two people get along.
rather than just being honest, being kind to others, and being kind to others.
This is the lowest requirement in marriage, and it is also the choice that is most likely to be regretted.
Especially if you find that this person is too honest, he will definitely be hesitant about many things, be dissatisfied, unwilling and will not stand on the same front with you, and even oppose your way of doing things, such as not considering the consequences or the overall situation.
Don’t you know that what keeps couples moving forward is their common goals and direction, and they can even support and understand each other’s decisions.
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