Parent feedback
This year’s child is in the second grade of junior high school and is in the stage of adolescence. Bad temper and rebelliousness are difficult to discipline. I don't listen to anything I say, I do things without considering the consequences, and I even look at me with hatred. I really don't know what to do? What to do if you are rebellious in adolescence?
Jiuzhou Jinbang Family Education Teacher Fan:
Adolescent children are also at the peak of rebellion. During this period, they have their own opinions. Therefore, parents must communicate more with their children. Less nagging and complaining, more understanding and encouragement. Guide children to express their opinions, give them respect, and help them establish correct values.
As a parent, what should you do if you are rebellious in adolescence?
1. Parents must respect their children
Parents must respect children in adolescence. Adolescent children are in the process of identifying themselves and moving toward independence. Parents who can truly respect their children are the best gifts to their children. In this way, children can "fly higher. Fly farther."
2. Protect children’s self-esteem
Self-esteem is the maturity of children’s self-awareness. As parents, we must ensure that our children have their own complete personality. If you don't respect and protect your child's self-esteem, your child will refuse to communicate with you. Therefore, every parent should learn to encourage their children more and protect their self-esteem.
3. Communicate calmly
Adolescent children have gradually matured physically and mentally. Parents should communicate with their children calmly, remain patient, and listen more to their children. Never use the attitude of "I am for your own good, and everyone should listen to me" to get along with their children. The more this happens, the more rebellious the children become and the more they act against their parents.
4. Thinking from someone else’s perspective
When communicating with children, you must think from someone else’s perspective and look at the problem from the child’s perspective. Adolescent children are emotionally rich, and parents must understand their children. Encourage and recognize your children more, and be patient when communicating with your children. Let your child feel your care and warmth for him.
5. Let the children experience
The children have always refused to communicate with their parents, or did not listen to their parents. Parents can try to let their children experience the taste of "eating their own consequences" while ensuring safety. Only through the child's own experience can he deeply understand the parents' good intentions.
6. Don’t confront your children head-on.
Faced with rebellious children in adolescence, parents must not confront their children head-on. In front of children, parents should put down their airs, be patient, talk to their children, learn to listen to their children, and treat them in a democratic and equal manner. Perhaps just a few warm words and a few gentle touches can untie the knot in the child's heart and help the child get out of the rebellious state of adolescence.
The above are the reasons why children are not confident shared by Teacher Fan from Jiuzhou Jinbang Family Education? Hope this helps parents! If you have children who are tired of studying, rebellious, addicted to games, puppy love, test anxiety, low self-esteem and other family education problems. Welcome to leave a message for discussion or send us a private message!
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