"Don't let your children hurt in elementary school (Communication)" This book is like a door that opens the hearts of teachers and parents. It discusses many common topics in children's growth with rich examples.
1. What should I do if my child likes to speak in class?
Some teachers often criticize students who like to talk, so that children gradually dare not speak out and the classroom becomes lifeless. The author also had personal experience of this. Later, through participating in the training, the author found that appropriate humor could bring better and better results. For example, when you find that your child is speaking in class, don’t blame him immediately. First of all, you must understand the content of his speech. If it is related to the classroom, encourage him to speak loudly and discuss with everyone. If it is unrelated, when facing students in lower grades, make listening actions: "Listen, where is the buzzing sound of bees in the classroom? Look for it!" When facing students in higher grades, you can say: "Next to have an intermission break and insert a joke..." and so on. This way, teaching students according to their aptitude will not hurt the child's self-esteem, but will also liven up the classroom atmosphere and narrow the distance between teachers and students.
For parents, if their children like to talk in class, they don’t have to be anxious, and they don’t be angry or yell. They can add more sense of humor and little creativity. First of all, you must understand the content of the child’s speech in class. If it is related to the class, it is recommended that he raise his hand to answer the question; if it is unrelated, guide him and the teacher to think from the perspective of others and teach him how to respect the teacher.
2. What should I do if my child is injured at school? Go to school to make a big fuss or swallow your anger? The author uses many years of work experience to tell us not to go directly to the school leaders, because this is a distrust of the head teacher and we must find the head teacher as soon as possible. Moreover, when parents report the situation to their teachers, they should be more relaxed and less blame. The more generous and tolerant the parents are, the more they will do their best when the class teacher coordinates.
3. What should I do if my child is discriminated against?
Some children, because they do not have a good family background and are not outstanding, they are easily ignored or even discriminated against by teachers.
If you want your children to be not discriminated against, first of all, parents cannot be inferior to themselves, so that their children will not be easily discriminated against.
If you are discriminated against by the teacher, parents can tell the teacher without being humble or arrogant: No matter what the family environment is, no matter the level of education, our expectations for our children are the same. Please respect my children. If the child has shortcomings, please tell us that we will actively help the child correct it.
In terms of children, first of all, parents should not strengthen the teachers and classmates’ despise him in front of their children, but should tell their children that the more they are afraid that others will look down on them, the more people will be looked down upon.
Secondly, parents should educate their children to pay attention to their own image and do not need to be carefully dressed up, but they must be clean and hygienic.
Again, parents should not instill the concept of family wealth in their children, otherwise it will lead to children being too inferior or too show off, which is not conducive to their children's growth.
There are many topics in the book, which are common problems in children's growth. Thank you very much for this book for giving us guidance. I hope that all children can grow up healthily!
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