A master's graduate from a 985 university in Shanghai who was studying for a bachelor's and master's degree admitted: I have packed my luggage and will return to my hometown in the countryside after the lockdown is unblocked. I don't regret coming here, but I will never stay. Just a few short sentences destroyed the last self-esteem of ordinary graduates.
"If you unblock it, go back to the countryside", the words of 985 master's degree destroyed the last self-esteem of ordinary graduates
When Xiao Deng graduated from high school, he, who had always been filial and sensible, had a conflict with his parents for the first time. He ranks third in the school and thinks he has excellent grades and outstanding abilities. If he cannot take this opportunity to get into a university in a first-tier city and work hard, it will be a waste of youth.
And parents' advice is to apply for another 985 university in Lin City, and to pass the civil service or post after graduation, seeking stable development. Xiao Deng did not understand and believed that his parents' thoughts were too pedantic and decided to apply for a 985 university in Shanghai.
During his undergraduate studies, Xiao Deng still had outstanding academic performance and good abilities. was finally admitted to the postgraduate degree in the school, , but in the second semester of his senior year, the outbreak of the epidemic also made him, who had always been looking forward to his long-term development, and began to worry about his future development.
until he graduated from his master's degree, although the epidemic has been controlled, , the local economic level has declined and employment positions have been greatly reduced. It is an indisputable fact. At first, Xiao Deng also chose to continue to persevere, just like other graduates.
But after a few months, no one cares about Haitou's resume, and the local rent, eating and commuting expenses are not low. The bonuses accumulated by have bottomed out.
Until he had to borrow money from his parents, he truly realized that the advice parents had given him to him was all motto. So the heartfelt words mentioned above came into being. But what is surprising is that Xiao Deng's withdrawal, , made many ordinary graduates who are still struggling in Shanghai "break their defenses".
From Xiao Deng’s mouth we learned that even a master’s degree like him, it is extremely difficult to survive in a highly developed first-tier city like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen without any roots. In fact, it is not impossible to find a job at all. If is lowered, you can barely find a job that can make a living.
Fighting in first-tier cities cannot prove everything. Recognizing the gap between yourself and reality is the prerequisite for improvement
But Xiao Deng is unwilling to do so. Parents are old and from rural backgrounds, and they do not have such generous retirement benefits. Therefore, Xiao Deng hopes to repay parents' years of hard work. If you end up being self-sufficient in your income and cannot help your family at all, you will feel uneasy. The master's degree in
985 is still the case. The graduates of ordinary colleges will not be in better condition. can be imagined how many ordinary college graduates in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen have no advantages, and they have been ups and downs in social recruitment.
Among them, even if you are lucky enough to find a job, the salary level of graduates who stay in first-tier cities will not be too ideal. Some graduates spend uncontrollable during college, and they owe a lot of white sticks and Huabei.
They have developed the habit of advanced consumption. seems glamorous in first-tier cities, but in fact, behind it is countless credit cards that are heavily in debt. When is not in turnover, they still have to ask for help from parents. They are already working but are still dependent on their parents.
Working in second- and third-tier cities, general graduates may not earn rent in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen in a month, , but if they leave Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, a single room of more than ten square meters will no longer require 5,000 yuan, and the basic expenses will not become the biggest burden after graduation.
Despite this, these graduates are still unwilling to leave first-tier cities. Rather than being willing to endure hardships and not giving up, is more unwilling to give up their last self-esteem as ordinary graduates.
Indeed, not all general undergraduate graduates cannot achieve good development in first-tier cities. There are very few general undergraduate graduates with average education but outstanding abilities. The most are those graduates with insufficient education and lack of ability. Faced with repeated failures, they can only complain about social injustice and discrimination from employers.
Author's message:
Educational discrimination is not so much discrimination, but rather reality. Education may not represent your full strength. But bachelor's degree can represent how much effort you have made in the past twelve years. Even if you perform poorly in the college entrance examination, you have the opportunity to counterattack through the postgraduate entrance examination.
After discussing with the parents, Xiao Deng decided to prepare for the civil service exam seriously. In fact, there are thousands of choices, and everyone’s successful life cannot be perfectly reproduced. can only clarify the direction of their efforts by recognizing the gap between themselves and reality. , and this is the fundamental prerequisite for achieving self-improvement.
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