The second week after the second female Ermao finished the midterm exam, the results had already come out, but the parents didn't know.
After she got home that weekend, I wanted to know her midterm exam results, so I asked her.
Ermao was in a good mood at that time. She told me the results of each subject one by one. The total score has improved compared to the results of the first monthly exam, but the Chinese test was not ideal, with a total score of 120 points, and only 81 points were taken.
My reaction was probably too hasty at that time, so I immediately asked her, why is her Chinese score so low?
Ermao said that the students in the class generally did not do well in Chinese, and her composition was deducted 15 points.
I just said, 15 points were deducted for 50 points. How did you write it? I usually read so many books, but the composition is written like a stream of books, and the narrative is straightforward, without any real feelings. Where can I get a high score?
Unexpectedly, Ermao immediately shook his face and burst into tears. She shouted to me loudly, "I did not do well in the exam, you just said to me in such a heavy tone, are you just looking at the grades?" I don’t know how to write essays, so tell me, how to write it?
Where is my tone heavy? I usually have this tone, because you are too sensitive. Isn't it okay to just say a few words?
You just blame me for doing poorly. Ermao, who had red eyes, threw down this sentence and walked into the room.
I watched my angry daughter close the door. I feel uncomfortable inside, what am I doing wrong? Just a few words made both the mother and daughter feel depressed. After
I figured it out that adolescent children, with sensitive psychology, after the exam, they must be careful when asking for grades, and cannot speak loudly. They must speak in a gentle tone and keep their usual tone even lower. Otherwise, the child will think that you are blaming her for not doing well in the exam, and will think that you only see the results and not her efforts! This will put more pressure on her invisibly.
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