Only mothers are good in the world. Children with mothers are like treasures, and children without mothers are like grass!
For students, mothers' educational methods are very important. Their words and deeds will play a role in the students' future years and directly affect their views.
China is not as open as abroad, so parents rarely mention gender education . However, with the development of time, my country has begun to popularize this knowledge for students, so that they can establish a correct sense of men and women from an early age.
9-year-old boy picked up his mother at the venue, and the young mother "lifted her legs" to cooperate. Netizens came to worry about
"Sons avoid mothers, and women avoid fathers" . In the feudal era, this was a rule that must be followed, but in the process of quality education inference, parents' ideas gradually became enlightened, and their education towards students is no longer as old-fashioned as traditional education.
But if the mother and son's actions are too "close", it will attract "gossip" from people around him. A mother shared the story of herself and her son online, which caused heated discussions among netizens online.
The mother who just came from afar after the training was very excited. Because she hadn't seen her for a long time, she picked up her mother directly. young mother also raised her legs and asked her son to pick her up high.
What a warm scene, it makes people feel very touching, but some discordant voices appeared in the comment area. Some netizens think that "the son avoids his mother". The 49-year-old student already has gender cognition. Mothers need to know how to keep a distance from their son and cannot allow their son to have close contact with themselves in this way.
However, some netizens think that the student hasn't seen his mother for a long time, so he is naturally very excited. It is normal to act like this, and the mother cannot hit his son. This is also conveying his "love" like his son. Why not?
In short, there are many different opinions in the comment area, and everyone has their own opinions. After the matter fermented, the mother personally responded to the controversy. The mother said:
The son attended a senior executive training meeting for a family business that day, and the theme was "a way of expressing gratitude and love". What the son wanted to express was his love for his mother.
Later, the mother wanted to delete this video online, but was stopped by her son. he thought this was a way to express love to his mother and there was no mistake.
In-depth interpretation
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. The boy himself wants to express his love for his mother, but he is interpreted maliciously. Isn’t this also causing harm to the students’ psychology?
"Sons avoid mothers" is indeed right, but everything cannot be measured with a kind of thinking. Is it impossible to even a normal hug between the son and the mother?
Parents should still focus more on educating students and guiding them, rather than meddling in other things. Every parent will do his best to cultivate their children. and their children grow together. Only when parents find ways to educate students can they better help them develop.
high-quality family education methods can cultivate better students
educational methods are not static, but need to make progress with society . "Self-superficial" parents cannot cultivate excellent children.
In the era of exam-oriented education, many parents believed that filial sons were produced under the stick. When students made a slight mistake, they would punch and foot. Parents always think that they were beaten out like this when they were young, so naturally there was no mistake in this kind of education.
and parents always say "What's going on with other people's children?" "How are they going on?" . These will directly impact students' self-confidence.
When parents learn to be positive parents, they are always making progress and updating their own educational methods, so that they can make students better.
When you find that your children are never as good as other people's children, you should look for your own problems. see if your education method is wrong with , which will lead to this situation. Instead of just scolding your children, it will be counterproductive.
Parents need to know how to think from the perspective of others. thinks more about the inner world of students. As experienced people, they must have deep feelings. They all came from the student days, so they can naturally understand students’ thoughts.
Parents can not shock students by being "high" and being superior. Only when you truly enter the hearts of children can you narrow the distance with students and become their good friends.
The education method of each family is different. Some parents will receive beating and scolding education, while some parents support happy education. However, no matter which kind of education it is, parents need to understand the degree and scale . If they find that the education method is wrong, they should still correct it in time, otherwise it will delay the students' academic performance.
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