The growth education of students comes from many aspects, such as parents, teachers, classmates and friends, which will influence students subtly and have a profound impact on students' three views and thinking. However, if parents have incorrect views and misbehavior behavior, there will be many setbacks in the growth process of students.
Kindergarten stage is an important stage for students to "lay the foundation" and an important stage for transitioning to primary school. It is also a time to cultivate students' values, thinking and aesthetics. Getting along with classmates is also very important. , but it is often a small thing in the eyes of students but a big thing in the eyes of parents.
After all, every parent has different ideas, and their ways of dealing with people are completely different. Some parents are wise and know how to advance and retreat, but some parents are selfish, which naturally causes conflicts and quarrels.
"Your is a copycat". Children's brand-name clothes are taken by mistake, but they are beaten back if they fail to ask for them.
As the saying goes, there is often a "bear parents" behind the "naughty children". Parents' words and deeds will also affect students' behavior and values. In the kindergarten stage, most of the clothes and supplies of students are similar and similar. , especially clothes, are often worn incorrectly, and a farce caused by "same clothes" is really no one!
Dad specially bought a brand-name jacket for his daughter during a business trip, which costs about 600 yuan. The mother did not deliberately mark it, but she didn't expect that after her daughter came home from school, the mother of found that her daughter's jacket was "replaced". Although the style and pattern were the same, the quality was different. Looking closely, it found that the English letters were also somewhat different. After asking the teacher, she knew that another child was wearing it wrong.
could solve the problem by changing the clothes back, but the other parent said bluntly: "You are the copycat! Why do you say this is my child's clothes! This is what I bought for the child!"
I have to say that 's child's brand-name clothes were taken wrongly, and the mother was turned around and beaten. I guess anyone would be angry about this. This is a typical "taking advantage"! The father thought that the coat would not cost much, but the mother refused to suffer a "silent loss". took out a receipt for buying clothes at the entrance of the kindergarten and threatened to report the case. The other party's parents reluctantly returned the clothes.
From the mother's narrative, the students wearing the wrong clothes have already admitted it, but the parents are "stubborn" and refuse to admit it. How should parents like guide students correctly? Do you ask students to take advantage of others? and some parents even ignore the students' wrong clothes and keep silent. Is this really correct?
It is common for kindergartens to take clothes wrong, but parents' attitude to deal with problems is the top priority
When you find problems, you must solve the problem, rather than just being stubborn. will not only affect its own impact, but also affect students' thinking. and parents must also play a positive guiding role in to give students a healthier growth atmosphere.
Wearing the wrong clothes is a trivial matter, but if you turn the tables and don’t admit your mistakes, it is a big matter. , and parents must also protect their own rights and interests. When the other party is unreasonable, they must also take up the weapons of the law appropriately. , especially those parents who "bully bully the weak and fear the strong", can avoid a lot of troubles with a tough attitude!
In my opinion, can also see the parents' personality from the way parents deal with students wearing the wrong clothes, and recognize their character and qualities. Parents may as well hand over the matter to the teacher and strive to properly solve the problem . If necessary, you may as well stay away from parents with low quality and choose classes with better atmosphere, etc., which can also allow students to grow better!
Parents are a "mirror" for students. Their words and deeds are very important, and parents should also play a role model.
Kindergartens belong to "collective life". Whether it is dressing, eating, sleeping, etc., students will be active under the guidance of teachers. It is understandable to take the wrong things or wear the wrong clothes. But if parents want to take advantage of this, they do not know that greed for small gains will not only affect students' values, but will also cause other parents to resist , and teachers will also have a bad impression of students.
Parents should also know how to think from the perspective of others, think more about students and consider , and consider the emotions of other parents based on their own judgment. However, if the other party wants to "bully rely on their power", should not be a "soft persimmon" that can be controlled by others, and promptly keep students away from students with distorted values. After all, "the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked"!
, and parents should also maintain a peaceful attitude, guide students to study positively and optimistically, and get along with classmates. After all, problems between parents and parents should be solved privately to avoid affecting the relationship between students, so parents should master the methods of dealing with problems.
The author's message : It is very common for kindergarten children to get the wrong things and clothes, but as long as parents can solve it reasonably, it is not a problem. But if there is a mentality of "taking advantage" and even turning the tables, it is naturally not allowed, and it will leave a bad impression on students, teachers, etc. Therefore, parents should also pay attention to their own words and deeds, transmit students' correct patriotic education and thinking, and have patriotic feelings!
Topic: Did your child wear other people’s clothes?
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