With the development of the times and the improvement of people's comprehensive quality, parents have clearly realized the importance of education. If students do not lay a solid foundation from an early age, employment will become a problem in the future.
This is under the influence of such a general environment, parents' educational anxiety has spread. Educational problems are a responsibility in the hearts of parents. If they fail to train students to become rubbing, the family guild will feel that they are dereliction of duty and, driven by various psychological activities, can arrange the nightlife for students.
While arranging homework, you will also tell students how important it is to study. If you don’t study hard, where will your future development be? How can you be worthy of your parents’ cultivation? So students are burdened with heavy learning burdens at such a young age. However, there are so many students in the world, how can they ensure that they are outstanding?
Just say the college entrance examination. Everyone knows that the college entrance examination is important, but what is the purpose of the college entrance examination ? It is a large-scale examination for selecting talents for the country, rather than making everyone a talent. However, some parents think that students must be admitted to prestigious schools.
Only students know how difficult it is to study now, how serious the intravolume between students is, the pressure of learning is too great and suppressed in their hearts, is like a mountain, pressing on the students and breathing.
"If you give birth to another one, I will feel relaxed." Seeing the traces on your wrist, junior high school students made parents worried
Where does the pressure from the students come from? Not only the pressure of learning , but also the pressure of competition among students and psychological pressure from parents. Many students do not think that they can do anything if they have poor grades, but they are afraid of letting down their parents' expectations, so they force themselves to have good grades.
Parents think that students are happy, but the expectations you give to students become their burden. Parents are responsible for comparing, comparing grades, comparing heights, comparing who can become class leaders, and students can achieve it. This is like making a Christmas wish. Parents make a wish and students are responsible for fulfilling it.
Slowly parents may have forgotten the original intention of education. has changed from the beginning that students are healthy and has become "Other people's children... look at you..." constantly puts pressure on students, but no one cares whether students can withstand the pressure.
A parent shared some of his colleague's educational experiences. said that one day the head teacher found blood marks on the student's wrist, so he responded to the parents in time. The parents were worried about what was wrong. The students refused to say anything, but they just told the parents very calmly, "You should have another one, and if you have educational experience, you should train them well, so that I can rest." When the parents heard the student talking, they didn't know what to say for a moment, so they asked for help from the netizen.
The parent said that he suggested that friends and husbands put their work on , and accompany to all their hearts. Don’t study anymore, go out to play, and go out to play for free if you have nothing to do, which may be alleviated.
In fact, the students' words really make parents very scared. On the surface, they look extremely calm. In fact, how many twists and turns have they experienced in their hearts before they can say such words?
netizens said that this is a signal of students asking for help. is the last signal. Parents must grasp it, otherwise bad things may happen.
Parents who came here gave experience
The students' reactions after entering puberty . A parent shared his experience online, saying that his daughter was depressed when she was in the first year of junior high school and cried every day on the way to school. She told the parents that she would have another child and not care about herself until she saw the blood marks on the student's arms, and the parents realized the seriousness of the problem.
So parents put aside everything around them, chatted with students, stared in a daze, accompanied students to watch TV series and star-catching, and traveled together. About one year, the students have completely recovered and were able to go to school and make friends normally, and can withstand the pressure of study. In order to reassure parents, the students told their parents that they had really come out, and will not be like they did a year ago. Maybe this is growth.
After entering junior high school, students' learning pressure doubles. Parents must pay attention to this issue. Many parents with relatively low cultural qualities think that students only need to study every day. What pressure do they have? What are the fatigue of ? Then ignore the students' mood.
In fact, this is a big mistake. People in every era will have their own pressure . Why are parents not stressed when they were young? Because there was no educational anxiety at that time, every student just played after school. What about now? How much pressure does the student have and has no time to play, so where should he put his suppressed mood? Over time, depression will develop, so parents must pay attention to it.
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