Tuesday, September 27, 2022, the weather is clear and the breeze is gentle!
The first math simulation exam since the fifth grade started, the Doudou brother, who has always been very rude, failed the exam. Perhaps it was because we have instilled too much in the successful education of the little guy, which made Doudou brother, who only scored 59 points in the exam, hid this matter for nearly two or three days and didn't dare to say it.
If it weren't for the fact that the math test scores had already come out from other parents, Doudou's mother and I would have been kept in the dark by him, and were deceived by his kind lies. I really believed that the teacher did not announce the results. Until this afternoon, I kept asking questions after school, but he still refused to tell his test scores. In the end, I was still playing tricks and shouted, "The other students' tests have all come out. Why haven't your scores come out yet? Did you fail this exam? Or did you fail the exam?"
A child is still a child after all, and he can't hide anything from us, the family who are experienced people. Long, after I asked, I asked, the little guy finally broke through his psychological defense line and replied: "I didn't pass the exam, I only scored more than fifty points."
has figured out the little bastard's psychological activities. He did not do well in the exam and didn't want to say it. He was just afraid that his mother and I would scold him. At this time, he was already blaming himself, so he couldn't say too much about blame. Instead, he should say more words of positive encouragement to let him face difficulties bravely: "I scored more than fifty points, but I just scored more than fifty points. It's not a big deal. Failure is a success! But if you don't do well in the exam, you have to tell your parents in time, so we can help you summarize the experience and lessons, and see what it is What is the reason? Can you learn from the strengths and weaknesses later and try to correct these shortcomings? "
As soon as I finished speaking, I heard the little guy explain quickly: "The questions in the exam are very simple, and I can do them too, but I don't have enough time. There are many questions behind that, which leads to only more than fifty points in the exam."
When I heard the little guy say this, I immediately learned from him and said, "This is why you like to touch this and that when doing homework, and finally caused you to be wasted and delayed. In the end, you failed the exam. Have you already corrected this habit of delaying in the future? And if it is for this reason in the early exam When I got the exam, I got another fifty points. Which school would you think would want you? You are only teenagers after elementary school. What can you do if you can’t study? I can only go back to my hometown to herd cattle with your grandfather. "
After listening to my analysis, the little bastard nodded thoughtfully and agreed: "I know, I will definitely pay attention to grasping the time next time."
"It’s better for children to know the mistakes to correct or to correct them. They are all the same test papers. Others have more heads than you. Others can get more than ninety points. Why can’t you do it? It’s because you are too slow. "In order not to feel burdened in your heart because of failing one exam, I finally comforted the little guy and said.
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