There are many meanings of learning. Some people want to increase their knowledge and improve their wisdom; some people want to realize their ideals. But to be honest, the reason why we ordinary students know how to fight against their "playful" nature and work hard to get good grades since childhood is because they want to win a better future through their studies.
The mantra that parents use when teaching their children is very realistic: "If you don't study hard and can't get into a good school, how will you find a good job in the future?" But don’t think that only students from poor family backgrounds can be diligent. Those students with a high starting point are not necessarily “dandy kids”.
A parent posted a picture of his son studying. Seeing the scene outside the window, netizens asked: Who is the "young master" working hard?
There is no need to say more about the economic level and educational level of Guangdong Province. Even at the primary and secondary school level, the number of teachers there exceeds that of many other regions.
Even a relative of the author, , chose to work in Guangdong because he wanted to provide a better learning environment for future generations. I have to say that in order to cultivate their children, parents’ feelings are difficult for others to understand.
No matter what your family background and financial ability are, when you see your children studying seriously, you must have a common feeling of relief. A parent in Guangzhou posted a picture of his son studying at home at night.
This classmate looks like a primary school student. Not only does his desk have a neat desk, but he also has a decent sitting posture. At first glance, he is a well-behaved child. It was already dark outside, but my son was still lighting the lamp and continuing to study.
In fact, not all students of this age can restrain themselves and take the initiative to learn their homework. Many primary school students are unwilling to complete their homework seriously even when their parents accompany them to study.
The parents were happy to see their son being so sensible, so they took photos of him studying and posted them online. Unexpectedly, the perspective of netizens was very unique, and what everyone noticed was the details outside the window.
It turns out that outside is a prosperous area in the city, with many landmark high-rise buildings, is a proper "CBD (Central Business District)". Housing prices in Guangzhou are not low to begin with.
Ordinary people can afford an ordinary house, and they already need to plan carefully; parents from other places have to make even more hardships. And being able to settle down like this parent in such a "land-rich" location is not something that ordinary families can do.
Therefore, when many netizens saw the bustling scene outside the window, joked: Whose "young master" is working hard? Some people joked that such a good environment might distract students and asked his father to consider "switching rooms" with him.
Some netizens are even curious, is this little classmate practicing signing checks? Of course, this kind of joke is actually just an expression of envy or self-deprecation. Students from different family backgrounds are really different in their learning.
Students from different family backgrounds have differences in their original intention and mentality of learning.
Some people say that the comments from netizens are indeed a bit "sour". To us, this kind of picture may have some "showing off" elements. It seems like showing off the baby, but in fact it seems like showing off the family background.
But maybe for people, this is just a relatively ordinary scene in daily life. Parents have not considered the bustling scenery outside the window. In any case, this phenomenon has indeed aroused many people's thoughts and feelings. Some of the ridicule made by
netizens may also have very realistic elements. We must admit that students from different family backgrounds have certain differences in their original intentions and mentality towards learning homework.
Especially in the later stages of schooling or entering the workplace, these differences will become more obvious. First of all, the "original intention" of the two to ensure results is often different.
For students from ordinary families, the training philosophy they have received since childhood is mostly "only by studying well can you have the opportunity to change your life", or "getting into a good university is our only chance to counterattack from the bottom."
I have to say that this kind of thinking has a positive effect on motivating students to study diligently, and it also has practical truth. Therefore, many students learned to study hard very early, mainly because they did not want to live up to their parents' expectations, and they also knew that they could only rely on themselves to gain a foothold.
As for children from relatively advantaged family backgrounds, because they have a "retreat", their original intention of learning is probably not a "counterattack". is more likely to have relatively pure goals. has good academic performance, often simply for the sake of "excellence" ” And stay motivated.
Based on the different original intentions, the two students naturally have different attitudes towards learning. For our classmates from ordinary families, the "trial and error cost" is relatively high.
Once we fail to do our best to improve our grades during the academic stage, or fail in important exams, the choices we face will be very limited. For students with more resources at home, even if their grades are not ideal, their parents can "pave the way" in other aspects, and their mentality when facing setbacks will definitely be different.
[Conclusion] Although there are gaps in opportunities for students from different families, the significance of learning cannot be denied to anyone. I believe many parents have also discovered that families with good conditions attach great importance to the education of their offspring. Every diligent student deserves to be recognized.
topic: What do you think after watching the scene of this boy studying?
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