Dear moms and dads, do you know what is the scariest thing for children who are not good enough?
Afraid of poor homework? Afraid of not getting a high score in the exam? These are all right and wrong!
Tell everyone a real little story that happened last night, and see if you can get a little inspiration from this story?
Many of the sixth grade students who take care of off-line homework on my side are children in the same class.
Yesterday when school was over, several children from one class arrived in our classroom at the same time. Student A pointed to student B and said to me:
"Mr. Lei, our school was graded today and he was divided into poor students. One column. The teacher will not ask him to do difficult problems in school in the future. You can also relax with him. You don’t need to tell him the too difficult questions. He doesn’t understand anyway."
Student A just said After student B was classified as poor students, I thought a little bit: What will the school do?
Looking at student B again, his eyes were obviously dimmed, and he quickly lowered his head, pretending that he didn't hear what student A said, and took out his book from his schoolbag.
Student B should be particularly uncomfortable and embarrassed in his heart. After all, being told in front of teachers and classmates that he has poor grades is what hurts his self-esteem.
I instantly understood that what student A said was the truth.
Of course,I really don't quite understand why the school should classify students with such a big fanfare, and clearly tell some children: You are poor students! You don’t understand difficult problems!
At least it is not allowed to treat students like this here, even if the school has strategic arrangements, just do it in private. Why do you have to tell the class with great fanfare? Don't they know that this hurts students' hearts in particular?
Just finished what student A said, I immediately replied with a grin:
"How is it possible? Don’t think that you have a good relationship, just want to make excuses for him to do less homework.
He said that his grades were poor, and he did a good job with us!
In the eyes of Mr. Lei, everyone treats everyone equally, and he has worked on difficult problems, so I won’t let him go."
After saying this, I smiled and looked at student B.
Student B raised his head. He didn't yell like he wanted to do less homework as before, but looked at me with bright eyes.
I know the meaning of those eyes, there is gratitude and trust...
I ask him to do the same problem as everyone, because I trust him, and I directly deny that he is a poor student and deny that he is inferior to others. , I think he is as good as everyone.
What if he can't handle the problem? It's a big deal to tell him twice.
Last night, student B was very serious about doing homework, listening to my lecture, and reading and recitation.
When I talked to him about the problem, he no longer perfuse me as usual, saying that I understood and understood, and then copied the answer.
said seriously: "Teacher, can you tell me about this place again?"
So I took the trouble to tell him again until he really understood it.
I dare not say that my actions saved a student. I am not that great, but at least in the heart of student B, I gave him a trust, a respect, and a warmth.
Students with poor grades are most afraid of not homework or exams. What they fear is that they will not gain the trust, respect and care of their teachers and parents.
Every student is equal, especially a student whose grades are temporarily lagging behind. When you put a label on him-"You are a poor student", it is equivalent to sentenced him to death.
People who have been sentenced to the death penalty are often ashamed of their hearts, so how can they be motivated to learn?
What students need is love, trust, encouragement, and warmth. It is precisely because of their poor grades and too much indifference and ridicule, so a little love is enough to melt their cold hearts!
hope that every adult can send a warm smile to the children, so that the children's hearts will be more beautiful!
I’m Mr. Lei, the coach of Xueba,Engaged in the education industry for many years, first-hand family education theory, and second-hand learning methods to help children improve their academic performance and help parents solve educational problems.
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